English Girl in Oman

It’s all a bit bazaar

2012-02-22T09:00:00.000+04:00

Spotted these earlier and it looks like there are lots of opportunities for spending some pennies this week. It starts tomorrow (February 23) with the British School Muscat’s table top sale which runs from 2.30pm to 4.30pm. More details on the poster.

Then it the turn of the ABA School who are holding their 25^th Anniversary Carnival Celebration on February 29 from 6pm to 10pm. The poster doesn’t give any details about entrance fee, but I doubt if there is one it would be that much!

Have a nice weekend.

OB

Pretty for Valentine’s Day

2012-02-11T09:00:00.003+04:00

This card is from the brilliant SadShop on Etsy

Hairy legs? Monobrow? Plucked chicken skin? Chipped nails? And that’s just the men! I think we can all admit none of that list sounds very appealing or if it does, you are into more specialised things than I am willing to go into on this blog! It’s that time of the year again when flowers double in price as if shops are surprised that February 14 comes round every year (note flowers from a garage are NEVER acceptable gentlemen) and chocolate becomes less of a “darling could you pick me up a bar on your way home” to “There had better be a box of the stuff the size of a small child when I go downstairs”. I know. We’ve all been there and we’ve all been disappointed!

Lots of restaurants and such are having special Valentine’s Day menus, but I think it is much more romantic to actually cook your other half something – that is if you actually can cook! If you can’t, be kind to everyone and go out for the evening.

Aside from restaurants, some of the spas in Muscat are having special offers during February to help get you at least looking the part of Juliet – but hopefully you will have a much less tragic end! There is even an offer to get your Romeo pampered so here are a couple of the ones I have spotted.

Six Nations 2012

2012-02-06T16:00:00.001+04:00

Just a quickie to share this list of all the 6 Nation 2012 matches coming up. O'Malley's the new Irish bar at the Radisson Blu hotel (mentioned here by MuscatMutterings) has helpfully made this sheet up complete with the starting times as they will be in Oman. I assume seen as they have done this, the bar will be screening all the matches so be sure to get down there and support England as I will be! Daiso - the everything is 700bz Japanese store in Ruwi on the Bader al Sama road - has a load of hand-held flags in at the moment, I picked up an England one and think I saw a couple of Irish ones so if you want to really get in the spirit!

AWOL & WGO

2012-02-05T10:42:00.000+04:00

Today’s post is one full of acronyms! Sorry for the serious lack of posts lately. I just haven’t been feeling too grand and blogging has been the last thing I’ve wanted to do!

I was going through the latest updates from the Women’s Guild of Oman (WGO) and noticed a couple of ads I thought might interest everyone. By the way, if you are a woman and live in Oman and haven’t joined this group of lovely ladies (you can even join online!) yet then you are crazy. Not only do you have an instant connection with other women both local and expatriate (so they know what you are going through when you want to cry about the lack of decent gluten-free food anywhere!), but they have regular events, special offers for members and fabulous discounts that get you money off everything from food and drink, spa treatments, art work, nights at a hotel, books and so much more.

Membership costs just RO10 a year and runs from September 2011 to September 2012, but if you joined now you would still get your money’s worth in a couple of shops! To give you an idea of how good the discounts are, I get my haircut in quite an expat popular salon in Muscat and saved RO15 off my usual price so the card paid for itself in just one visit!

Anyway as I mentioned, there were some things going on this coming week/weekend that I thought may interest my lovely readers, so here you go J enjoy!

Snow Patrol and James Blunt in Muscat

2012-01-12T21:20:00.000+04:00

Well HiFm and Alive Entertainment seem to be spoiling us at the moment and I have to admit I haven't been this excited about a gig here since 30 Seconds To Mars rocked out in Muscat last year!

The concerts in Muscat kick off on February 15 with James Blunt - who sold out super quick and was brilliant when he came first time round in 2009. I guess he will be playing some of his latest album Some Kind Of Trouble alongside old favourites! Unfortunately I won't be able to make this concert :( but bet everyone who can will enjoy it! The event Facebook page is here.

Then on March 11 (yes, it is on a Sunday... stop complaining Grandmas!) - and this is the gig I am MOST excited about - is SNOW PATROL! I remember sometime last year saying that if they can some how bring Muse or Snow Patrol out here I would be so happy and they have done it! So you can all thank me now ;) I have seen them live in the UK and the band were great so hope they bring some of that magic to Muscat. The event Facebook page is here.

Tickets for both shows are priced at RO25 for general admission and RO50 for the fan pit, which if you want to be able to chill out and have a bit more space is well worth the extra cash. Doors for both shows open at 7pm, but the shows never seem to start before 8.30pm/9pm so no rush and as usual the events are at the InterContinental Hotel Gardens.

To buy a ticket you can either visit Bose Qurum City Centre, Alive box office in MQ (behind Costa) or the Al Ghazal at InterContinental hotel. For more info, you can call 95555699.

Who else would you like the station to bring out? I am still waiting for the other stations like Merge and Oman Radio to realise there is a lot of exposure to be taken for hosting events like these... Does anyone know if they plan on bringing anyone here at some point?

OB

My interview with ExpatArrivals.com

2012-01-09T20:33:00.001+04:00

Oman & UK flags hanging at the Sultan's palace when the Queen visited in 2010

A couple of months ago I got an email from the lovely Stephanie at ExpatArrivals.com asking me if I would be interested in completing a questionnaire for their website on being an expat in Oman. I did so and you can visit the website here or read my replies below. The site is currently building its Oman pages so I know they plan on adding new bits over the next couple of months.

About you

Q: Where are you originally from?

A: England

Q: Where are you living now?

A: Muscat, Oman

Q: How long you have you lived here?

A: Three years

Q: Did you move with a spouse/ children?

A: I was single when I moved here

Q: Why did you move; what do you do?

A: I work in the media/PR industry sector, and I chose to move because I wanted to experience new things and make a little cash – tax free!

About Muscat, Oman

Q: What do you enjoy most about Muscat, how’s the quality of life in Oman?

A: There is a very good quality of life in Muscat because it is so relaxed. You can take a stroll on the beach, wander round the shopping malls or veg out with friends in one of the many coffee/shisha bars; there is something for everyone. Muscat is very easy to get around if you have a car, and the roads are not as confusing as other cities, such as Dubai. The best thing is that you can reach practically everything in Muscat within 30 minutes. The winters are amazing, but you pay the price for this in the summer. It is very easy to learn about the Omani culture here as you interact with locals on a daily basis, so that is a big plus.

Q: Any negatives? What do you miss most about home?

A: The downside is the transport problems here, because unless you have a car it can get expensive and very difficult, especially in the summer, when it comes to getting taxis as there are no real buses to speak of.

I miss the ease of food shopping in the UK; while lots of items are available here, they are either not cared for properly in the supermarkets (e.g. one of the big supermarkets here actually turns their freezers off at night!) and/or are very expensive. You can buy local vegetables, but they are often not as good quality as we are used to.

The Internet is also a pain because you feel like you are signing your soul over rather than just an Internet connection due to the forms and 20 questions!

Also the summers are horrible, and no one can really explain to you how bad they are until you experience it for yourself.

Q: Is Muscat safe?

A: Muscat is very safe – as I mentioned I was a single woman when I first came here – but there are problems with some taxi drivers who think they can rip you off or talk to you inappropriately. I think as with everywhere though, if you are sensible and don’t travel at night alone you are fine.

About living in Oman

Q: Which are the best places/suburbs to live in Muscat as an expat?

A: As a western expat, places like MQ and Qurm are the main places, but lots of people are now moving out to Azaiba, Ghubra and The Wave. There are lots of Arab – Egyptian in particular – expats in al Khuwair, while Ruwi and Muttrah are known as the Asian – mainly Indian – areas.

Q: How do you rate the standard of accommodation in Oman?

A: Accommodation ranges from great to damn awful, it just depends whether you get a nice or a bad landlord. You can find apartments that look great on the surface, but come the first rain it leaks everywhere or during the summer the cockroaches come crawling, it just depends unfortunately.

Q: What’s the cost of living in Oman compared to home? What is cheap or expensive in particular?

A: Accommodation can be quite cheap if you are willing to live outside the main western expat areas, otherwise it can be very expensive. In terms of space though, you do get more of that for your money, but whether people need that extra maid’s bedroom is up for debate!

Q: What are the locals like; do you mix mainly with other expats?

A: The locals are in general very friendly people, and the majority are very open-minded and well-educated. I actually have very few western friends, tending to meet up with Arab women I have met – both Omanis and other Arab nationalities.

Q: Was it easy meeting people and making friends?

A: A lot of people complain that it is hard to make friends here, but due to my job I was lucky that I met quite a lot of people in a short space of time. There are lots of groups – both social and activity based – around, including the Women’s Guild of Oman and American Women’s Group who both organise events and meet-ups. There is also a great twitter and online community here who organise regular meets, so if people are willing to make the effort there are people out there to meet!

About working in Oman

Q: Did you have a problem getting a work visa/permit?

A: It took five months, a period of time that felt rather long, but was standard here.

Q: What’s the economic climate like in Oman, is there plenty of work?

A: There are jobs around, but due to Omanisation a lot of companies are putting pressure on companies to higher local workers not expats now, and you do hear of expats not having their contracts renewed. However in specialised fields there is still work to be found.
Q: How does the work culture differ from home?

A: For one, I work with a lot more nationalities than I ever did in the UK, and we tend to work longer hours. There are problems that crop up occasionally, such as labour law disputes (being paid for overtime etc) but this varies from company to company.

Q: Did a relocation company help you with your move?

A: No, I just came with my suitcases

Family and children

Q: How would you rate the healthcare?

A: Healthcare varies massively, while some doctors are brilliant the facilities they have to work within can, in some hospitals, feel rather primitive. Waiting times don’t really exist, you just turn up and see your doctor and get scans/tests etc done in real time. However I am yet to find a doctor that I truly trust here, and know many of my friends have the same trouble. It seems as if people are just there to take your cash and don’t often care about your health. If I was very ill I would probably go back to the UK for treatment.

And finally…

Q: Is there any other advice you like to offer new expat arrivals?

A: Get out there and make friends as soon as you can because until you have someone you can call up for coffee and have a whinge down the phone about then it can be very hard to settle. Most importantly ask for help. If you don’t understand something then ask, especially when it comes to the culture here, because there is a huge misconception about women in places such as Oman. In reality, the females I have met are, in general, such loving and happy people that welcome questions about their lives and country so don’t be scared.

~interviewed December 2011

What do you think about my answers? What were your experiences of first moving to Oman?

OB

2011 - what a year

2012-01-01T21:05:00.001+04:00

Happy New Year! When I sat down to think what had been the real defining moments for me this year, I was struck by how 2011 seems to have been quite a sad, yet for the better good type year. The big thing for both B and I was the Arab Spring protests where thousands of people died including 846 in Egypt (between January 25 and April 19), over 5000 in Syria (according to UN reports), between 1784-1870 in Yemen (until September 25), 224 in Tunisia and 25000–30000 in Libya alone.

Even though I have always been into following world events, actually being in an Arab country when all of this was happening was a really interesting experience that I intend on keeping with me always. But the hardest thing was actually being married to someone from one of the countries that was and still is most affected – Egypt. One of the scariest things for both B and I was trying to stay sane as we heard from our family in Egypt about the horrible things taking place and how they had become a part of daily life. When you can’t leave the house because masked men are roaming up and down the streets with guns and the police burn down shops for selling food to protestors, you know they have got bad.

While things are still troublesome, I am happy in the knowledge that all of the bad stuff really has made them stronger and if anything I found a lot more respect for what people outside of our normal existence go through on a daily basis. Here is an interesting read on the answers people in Egypt are hoping to get in 2012 and below is a fantastic video summarising 2011.

So I have to agree with Time Magazine and say that my person of the year also goes to the protestors – just not those bloody idiots in the UK who got their knickers in a twist over the summer!

Now it is time to write my list of resolutions and try to keep them this year. Here is to 2012 and to everyone fighting for freedom and what is right, may the path not be as bloody as this year.

Royal Opera House Muscat launches second season

2011-12-29T23:11:00.001+04:00

I am a bit late in posting this, but had serious internet woes at home the past couple of weeks! As you have probably seen on some of the other blogs, the Royal Opera House Muscat announced its second season earlier this week, which will run from January to April, 2012, and the line-up is looking nice and varied. The ticket prices have also been revised for all shows and now start from RO5 per person, so for the better, or so it seems for the time being as the prices of tickets for each individual area is yet to be announced. There is also a new inclusion of two children’s performances, which will start from RO3.

Another good thing is the show times have been moved forward so hopefully it will be easier to grab a bite to eat post-show instead of everyone leaving the opera at midnight and being faced with no other choice than drive through at McDonalds! There are also a number of packages and discount deals available for those purchasing a number of tickets to different shows.

Here is the programme

Titans of the Russian Repertoire - January 16, 7.30pm

The Vienna Philharmonic pays tribute to a number of Russian composers

Omar Sarmini – January 20, 7.30pm

Omar Sarmini and a traditional Arabic ensemble present classical tarab

Welcome the Dragon: A Chinese New Year’s Celebration – January 23, 7.30pm

The Chinese Traditional Orchestra of Inner Mongolia makes its Oman debut

Ammar el Sherei – January 25, 7.30pm

Ammar el Sherei returns to Oman with Macedonian Philharmoic Orchestra and Salim al Maqrashi

Carnival of the Animals – January 28, 6pm (Children’s show)

The Moscow City Symphony Russian Philharmonic tells the story of Carnival of the Animals, accompanied by Abdul Rahman Abou Zahra

Tsar Saltan – January 29, 6pm (Children's show)

The Moscow City Symphony Russian Philharmonic tells the story of Tsar Saltan, accompanied by Abdul Rahman Abou Zahra

Jose Carreras – February 1, 7.30pm

The Moscow City Symphony Russian Philharmonic will accompany Jose Carreras, the famous tenor for this one night only show

The Great Arabic Songbook: From Umm Kulthum to Muhammed Abdo – February 7, 7.30pm

The Multi-Ethnic Star Orchestra plays Arabic classics such as songs by Umm Kulthum, Muhammad Abdal Wahhab, Faris el Atrache, Muhammed Abdo and Sayyid Darwish

South African Ballet Theatre – February 10-11, 7.30pm

The group will perform a line-up of much loved ballets including classical and modern pieces

Music of Omar Khairat – February 15-16, 7.30pm

The Omar Khairat Ensemble and Royal Oman Symphony Orchestra play music from Egyptian cinema

Beyond Tunis: A Mediterranean Journey – February 20, 7.30pm

Sania M’barek performs the sound of Runisia to Libya and beyond

Three Centuries, Three Continents, Three Masters – February 23, 7.30pm

The Prague Symphony Orchestra joins Abdel Rahman el Bacha and Ahmed el Saedi in performing the works of Beethoven, Rimsky-Korsakov and Passacaglia for Orchestra

Il Travatore – March 1 and March 3, 7pm

The Ravenna Festival performs Verdi’s Il Travatore

Exhilarating Rhythm: Wadaiko and Omani Drumming – March 6, 7.30pm

Fusing the styles of Japan and Oman, this performance features Japanese Wakaiko and traditional Omani musicians

Tango Metropolis – March 8-9, 7.30pm

Created by Daniel Binelli, Pilar Alvarez and Claudio Hoffmann, this performance tells the story of the Argentinean tango

Praxa – March 15-16, 7.30pm

Produced by the Astana Philharmonic Orchestra from the Cairo Opera House, this musical comedy is an original Arabic musical loosely based on Aristophanes’ Lysistrata

Abduction from the Seraglio – March 23 and March 25, 7pm

The Hungarian National opera presents Mozart’s Abduction from the Seraglio

Icons: A Celebration of Arabic Jazz – March 28-30, 7.30pm

On March 28, Anouar Brahem will perform. On March 29, Fathy Salama will perform and on March 30, Rabih Abou-Khalil will perform.

There are also a number of package deals available that when booked together result in a 15 per cent discount. Students will receive 15 per cent discount as will children aged between 6 and 17 years of age. There is also a group discount for purchases of between ten and 24 tickets for the same show and they are 15 per cent.

Tickets for group and packages go on sale on January 1, while single ticket sales start on January 4.

So what are you all looking forward to?

Sweet event in Qurm

2011-12-09T18:15:00.000+04:00

Just in case any of those lovely ladies that make fabulous cakes in Muscat are reading this, I would like to put it out there that I LOVE cake. Carrot cake, coffee cake, brownies, cookies, bread pudding… you name it. Anything cakey, sweet and delicious doesn’t last very long in my house and while I do enjoy baking, I have to admit to getting very lazy in recent months and just don’t have the energy to do it myself.

Luckily for lazy types like me who can’t even be bothered to drive around the different bakeries looking for treats, for one day only (January 12, 2012) the Al Qurm Complex (aka CCC) will be hosting a bake sale. The sale is open to anyone who enjoys baking and thinks they are any good at it. It costs RO30 per table, but I guess you can sell as much or as little on that as you like.

The event is scheduled to run from 10am to 9pm and according to the events Facebook page will feature alongside the cakes for sale, a Create & Sell kids corner that is free for 8-15 year olds to participate in where they can embrace their creative side. There will also be face painting, henna and colouring available.

I assume registration is still open so if you fancy making a bit of cash from your cupcakes or… some dough from your dough (awful cake based pun!) then sign up. Let me know if you are taking part and I promise to come round and do some sampling!

For more details either visit the event Facebook page or call 24563672.

In other news I am in the process of writing a post about being a female expat who works in Oman so let me know if you have any questions you want answering. I get a lot of emails from people asking about correct business and social attire as well as things such as “Can you shake an Arab woman’s hand?” so will be sure to answer those.

The Script in Oman

2011-11-15T22:29:00.000+04:00

Firstly a big apology for being very rubbish at posting lately. I seem to have been struck with writer’s block because I just can’t get excited enough about anything to write about it! Inspiration struck this morning though so fingers crossed there should be a fun rant coming your way soon ;)

In other (rather late!) news, The Script are playing in Muscat tomorrow (November 16, 2011) at the InterContinental Hotel gardens. I already have my tickets and looking forward to having a chill out in this lovely weather! Also I want to have a slight whine at those who keep complaining that nothing ever happens in Muscat or their favourite performers aren’t being bought over.

First things first, yes, I would rather see Muse, Foo Fighters or Adele, BUT I realise they won’t come somewhere like here until a decent fan base that is willing to buy tickets is established. I have been really amused by some of the acts that have been bought over here, but have still gone to probably 60-70 per cent of them because I understand that support and encouragement needs to be there.

So stop whinging and get out and support these types of events so they can get bigger and better. Or at least that is what I hope will happen! Rant over J

Oh- and a very late Eid Mubarak!

M&S opens in MCC

2011-11-01T19:51:00.000+04:00

Sorry for the lack of posts lately. Things have been crazy busy!

Anyway, just a quick post to let you know that Marks & Spencers is opening tomorrow (Wednesday November 2) in Muscat City Centre. I am hoping to make a quick visit and according to the sms I got earlier, they are giving out free goodie/beauty bags to the first 500 customers to spend over RO10.

Let me know how it goes and I am still keeping my fingers crossed that the food section recieves a much needed boost.

OB

Opera fever

2011-10-13T16:24:00.001+04:00

Photo by Oman News Agency

Well the photographs from the launch look amazing and I am sure everyone had a great time, so it is my turn to show a few sneaky photographs that I took earlier this week on a visit to the Royal Opera House Muscat. Sorry they aren’t very good, I only had my phone with me! I must say the detail in the lobby is stunning and while in my head I had imagined the theatre to be bigger than it is, it will still be a beautiful addition to the Muscat cultural scene. The scenery and costumes for Turandot was equally as impressive and I instantly regretted not getting seats for the opening show!

View of the lobby

View from the stage to the seating. The balcony area with cream seating is the Royal Box

In other opera related news, a number of the hotels are offering pre and post-performance dinners and below are details for two of them – the Grand Hyatt Muscat and The Chedi Muscat.

Have a nice weekend all :)

Weird weather

2011-10-12T23:00:00.000+04:00

Photo found on http://yfrog.com/khhcdkyj and taken by Phyphors

Well, I don’t know about you, but did anyone notice it was a little… breezy this afternoon?! Yes, that’s right folks. In this most exciting thing to happen to Muscat in… well since the last time it rained, we got hit by a sandstorm. Not just any sandstorm, and thankfully nothing involving Darude, but a real proper “dear god where have those mountains gone and was that a goat that just flew past” sandstorm! Ok, so maybe that is a slight over reaction, but this was my first proper sandstorm and I have to say it was amazing to watch. I do of course hope no one was injured though!

Photo found on http://instagr.am/p/P4OXF/ and taken by Bluechi

There was talk that a plane tried to land at Muscat airport during the storm and had to abort mid-landing. Can anyone confirm? Any reports of accidents due to it? The roads seem to be not too bad from what I have seen, but there was already build-up as people were worried about the roads being closed due to the Opera House opening tonight.

It was so strange when the storm hit though. One minute it was sunny, the next it went a little gray and before we knew it everyone’s phones were going off telling them to look outside. Rolling in from the north was this giant dark mess of a cloud that within seconds swallowed everything around us. If you don’t believe how quickly it arrived, check out this amazing video I found on YouTube and I have to admit my experience was somewhat similar!

I have included a couple of photos that I found online – hope the photographers don’t mind – feel free to give me a shout if you want them removed, but I thought they were great images so no harm was intended.

So, I’m thinking of having “I survived the great sandstorm of Oman 2011” t-shirts made. Anyone interested? ;)

On a vaguely linked…. Link… while looking for information online, I came across this blog by a young girl called Emma who is currently in Oman for a year as a Yes Abroad Scholar. She is blogging about her experiences here so I am sure she will have lots more interesting posts to come J

Breast Cancer Awareness Month

2011-10-04T22:58:00.000+04:00

Every year breast cancer awareness month comes round in October and women are reminded that they should be should be checking their breasts. Despite the fact I have family members and close family friends that suffered from breast cancer, I still forget to check my breasts regularly. Sure I have the time to cleanse, tone and moisurise my face daily plus to give my nails a paint, but for some reason regular breast checks – like a lot of women, I am sure – somehow end up being the last thing on my list and I never get round to them. Below is a handy checklist for those of you who need a reminder on what to do!

This month the National Association of Cancer Awareness in Oman is holding an event at Qurm City Centre. They are also holding their 8^th Annual Cancer Awareness Walk on October 25 from 4pm to 6.30pm. Details of both events are below and on the NACA Facebook group.

So the message for all you ladies this month is DON’T BE A NOOB, CHECK YOUR BOOBS!

OB

Why I hate being an expat

2011-09-09T22:45:00.005+04:00

I know a couple of other bloggers in Oman – Angry in Oman and the Muscat Mitchells – spring to mind, but now it is my turn. All expats know how hard it is saying goodbye to our friends and family back in our home countries when we make the decision to move abroad, but one thing I know I didn’t take into consideration, was how hard it would be to first make friends in a new country and then have to say goodbye to them again as moving on is an integral part of the expat life we have chosen.

A word of warning to anyone thinking of moving abroad, keep this in mind. It sucks. When I first moved to Oman I didn’t know anyone. I got on a plane in the UK not knowing my home or office address, who I would be living with, where I would be living or if anyone would “get” me. Luckily all those questions were eventually answered – well except the last and I can’t blame anyone but me for that ;)

It took a month before I met anyone that I actually wanted to see more than once and they are now one of my favourite people in Oman. I know she (Ms PP) reads this so thank you for letting me sit next to you and for finding the meeting as dull as I did ;)

It took a couple more months of meeting people through work and grabbing the occasional cup of coffee before I met another person that went on to become a friend. Then came B and through him I met a couple (FC) that went on to become our favourite couple here. And now they have become the first people I have had to say goodbye to as expats.

I have always been rubbish at goodbyes. They just seem so… final and I would rather pretend to myself that I will see that person in a couple of weeks. This time round though, they are moving to a different country so I had to face facts. I had managed to keep everyone cheerful until we hugged each other goodbye and the realisation that they really were leaving hit, the tears began.

I know we will see them again and until then I wish them both the best of luck, they are going to need it if I am going to be the poor kid’s godmother! I would be interested to know how the other expats cope with this? Does it get any easier the more people leave? Was it something you even considered when you moved abroad?

A rather fitting song given the subject and that Bocelli will be playing here at the Royal Opera House later this year. This is for you Mr and Mrs FC :)

“How lucky I am to have known someone who was so hard to say goodbye to.”

Royal Opera House Muscat launches

2011-09-06T13:15:00.004+04:00

Well, that took long enough eh? The opening season line-up for the Royal Opera House Muscat was launched a couple of days ago and I must admit that some of the acts are pretty impressive. The building from the outside is looking pretty impressive, everyone who has seen the inside seems to have nothing negative to say about it… so fingers crossed those behind the scene manage to pull the season off without a hitch. The tickets don’t even seem to be that badly priced (Starting from RO17 for concessions and tickets are non-refunadable), but if the social networking sites and online forums are to be believed, it seems that tickets are being snapped up fast so if you are interested in buying some, be sure to get them quick.

Here is the list of shows and dates:

Opera Turandot: October 14 & 15
Gala Concert - Plácido Domingo Sings To Oman: October 18
Renée Fleming & Royal Philharmonic Orchestra: October 21
American Ballet Theatre presents Don Quixote: October 26, 27 & 28
Andrea Bocelli in Concert Tenor Debut at Royal Opera House Muscat: November 1
London Philharmonic Orchestra & World-Renowned Cellist Yo-Yo Ma: November 5
Teatro Alla Scala Ballet Company presents Giselle: November 10, 11 & 12
Umm Kulthum: The Legacy by Riham Abdul Hakim: November 17
The World Of Magida El Roumi featuring Magida El Roumi: November 23
Universal Ballet Of Korea In “Shim Chung – The Blindman’s Daughter”: November 28
Jazz At Lincoln Center Orchestra with Wynton Marsalis: November 30
Opera Carmen by George Bizet: November 17, 19 & 21
Swan Lake by The Mariinsky Ballet: December 27, 28, 29 & 30
New Year’s Eve Gala Performance By The Mariinsky Ballet: December 31

As pointed out on Muscat Mutterings here, the site was claiming you can buy tickets online then doesn’t go through with the transaction, but that seems to have changed today. Currently you have to buy tickets in person at the Box Office, Grand Hyatt or InterContinental. One word – fail.

I must admit there does seem to be a lot of ballet – 12 shows out of 24 shows, which unfortunately isn’t my thing, but I guess someone at the opera house must be a big fan. I don’t know about the rest of you but I am planning on going to see Carmen with the girls, Um Kulthum tribute with B and Andrea Bocelli with anyone I can drag along! Just a pity I won’t be sipping a nice glass of wine in the interval… ah well, swings and roundabout I guess!

Do any of you plan to attend? If so, what are you thinking of seeing?

Enjoy!

Eid Mubarak

2011-08-31T10:26:00.003+04:00

A big festive Eid Mubarak (meaning happy and blessed Eid) to everyone out there and I hope you all enjoy seeing family, friends and eating lots of yummy sweets. The text messages began at around 9pm last night and are still going – thanks to those of you who chose to message me in the middle of the night – hmmm. Saying that though, it is so sweet seeing all the children smiling with their pockets stuffed full of eid-ey-yah - money that their adult family give to them, and seeing the women in the lovely new dresses and abayas. Not to mention those mountains of sweets in all the bakeries and supermarkets! I dare anyone to come to the Middle East during Eid and not eat their weight in those yummy sticky pastries!

I had big plans to make a scrummy breakfast for B who after going to the mosque for Eid prayers this morning, went with a friend of his to Seeb to sacrifice a goat – one of those things I cannot get used to seeing happen despite B's insistance that I should either watch it "live" or on video - for another friend’s restaurant and then proceeded to eat his weight in liver, onions and bread so returned home not hungry! Good job I hadn’t started cooking or Eid certainly would have started with a bang… right between his eyes!

I have really enjoyed Ramadan this year. Sharing iftar with friends and swapping dishes with my neighbor have reminded me how little effort I make the rest of the year to actually spend proper time with my friends. Even simple things like taking time over a meal seem to be sacrificed during the year, but come Ramadan, meals can last hours thanks to all that chat! So if nothing else, that is what I decided to take from the 30 days this year.

Anyway, I hope everyone has a lovely break and be careful not to put all that lost weight back on if you managed to lose some over Ramadan!

OB

TGI Fridays

2011-08-26T17:00:00.008+04:00

While I did do a little jump of joy when it was confirmed TGI Fridays (or I will now it TGI Wednesdays) would be coming to Oman and they set an opening date – September 15 for those of you who are interested – I am unsure how the concept is really going to work here. TGI Fridays as I know it in the UK is known for three main things – cocktails (of which their site claims in the UK alone they sell over 40,000 a week), Jack Daniels Sauce and did I mention cocktails? The food is ok and the restaurants are always a good place for a laugh with friends on someone’s birthday, but I can’t see in my head how it will translate here.

Apparently the branch in Muscat, located in the City Seasons Hotel in Al Khuwair, won’t be serving alcohol. But will they still serve Jack Daniels sauce with their meat dishes even though the sauce itself apparently doesn’t contain any alcohol or will it be renamed something else?

The above image is the property of robertpaulyoung

Can anyone from TGI Fridays over here give us an idea of what the menu will be like? I know there are branches in Dubai and Kuwait, but I can’t find a menu for them online and have never visited. I’m imagining them doing something along the line of Chillies… will be love of Chillies be replaced by TGI Fridays? Only time will tell.

Fingers crossed it is worth the wait J

OB

DVD sale in Muscat

2011-08-25T16:14:00.000+04:00

First it was books, now it is DVDs… looks like everyone is trying to shift their excess stuff these days. Perhaps Spring cleaning only hits Oman towards the end of Ramadan?

I spotted on Facebook this morning that Movie Time DVD shop in Al Masa Mall are having a mega clearance sale starting from today and running until September 20. As part of the sale, the store will be selling off mainly region 1 DVDs that they either no longer want or have extra copies of. The DVDs are priced at either RO2 or RO3 each and they are also doing a special offer where if you buy five movies you get one free, or if you buy ten movies you get three free! Not bad eh!

As said, the sale starts today and the shops Ramadan timings are 7.30pm to midnight, while they will be closed on the first day of Eid. From the second day of Eid they will be open from 5pm-10pm so why not go and see if you can beef up that sorry looking DVD collection?

Out of curiosity, what plans does everyone have for Eid? I think I am going to be stuck at home thanks to penny pinching at the moment :(

Have a nice weekend everyone

Oman Cat-astrophe event

2011-08-13T22:12:00.000+04:00

Animal cruelty is a big problem here and the number of stray cats and dogs running around the sultanate needs to be dealt with. One group that some of you might not be aware of is Oman Cat-astrophe, an initiative started by a group of kind individuals in Muscat (they also do work in Sohar) who decided they were fed up with seeing the suffering these animals face and wanted to do something about it. The group helps re-home stray cats and dogs so that it not only gets them off the streets, but gives them a loving home to feel safe in. They also neuter stray cats, therefore stopping their ability to breed - something that is essential in controlling the numbers of stray animals.

Now obviously this takes time and money, so to help them raise some much needed funds, they are holding a Grand Book Sale on September 13 between 3pm and 9pm at Dolphin Village. The sale will not only be selling second-hand books as they are also collecting other items for sale. They are currently looking for donations of books and items that they can sell so if you have some bits laying around the house, you can call Lesley on 92914868 or Chris Barlow on 95040189.

Items can be dropped off in Al Khuwair, MQ, Ghubra or the Tafani vet clinic, but check with Lesley or Chris for exact location details. There is also someone willing to accept items in Sohar who will then bring them down to Muscat for the sale.

For more details, visit the group's Facebook page or the event page.

Marks & Spencer in Oman

2011-08-13T00:04:00.000+04:00

Ok so for this might not be news but given how excited I was when I found out and the "WOOOO" reaction a colleague of mine had when I told her, I thought it would be worth posting.

Most people already know that Marks and Spencer is leaving Markaz al Bahja mall and moving to the ~~expensive~~ lofty heights of Muscat City Centre, opposite The Noodle House to be exact. The building work on the new two-storey shop seems to have been going on for sometime and last week I asked a salesperson in M&S what was happening with the new store and they said that they have been told that it looks like it will be opening in October time.

I also asked whether it would have a proper food section like the M&S stores in the UK and I wooped with joy when he told me that he had heard they were installing freezers so assumes that it will have a food section. YAY! Does this mean I will be able to buy melt in the middle chocolate puddings that just aren't a melt in the middle chocolate pudding but a Marks & Spencers melt in the middle and make you go all tingly inside chocolate pudding?!? Or Percy Pig sweets? Dear lord I hope so. Until then I will just continue dribbling with anticipation and stare woefully at this picture.

Enjoy :)

OB

Books Glorious Books!

2011-08-05T23:57:00.001+04:00

The very lovely girls over at Omani Book Mania have announced their choice for August's group read and they have decided to go with Harper Lee's classic To Kill A Mockingbird. The group are yet to announce a reading schedule but are due to start soon so why not get over there and join in? Even if you read the book at school - as I did - or have never read it, it is such a classic that there is no excuse to have never read it! Let's hope this one is as successful as their first group read, Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows.

The site is also still accepting book reviews, so if you have just finished reading something about want to tell others have great... or awful that it was then jot it down and send it across to omanibookmania@gmail.com

They have also mentioned about Bank Muscat's Charity Book Fair where they will be selling second hand books. For information on dropping off books or about the event, contact Jinan on jinan@bankmuscat.com

Now get reading you lot and that's an order!

OB

Ramadan in Egypt - Day 1

2011-08-01T22:13:00.000+04:00

Well I hope everyone had a good first day fasting. I had to post this video because it horrified me to see this taking place on the first day of the Muslim holy month. The events in Tahrir Square, Cairo today were disgusting. There were reports of the army eating and drinking in front of protesters while destroying their tents. Have a look at this video.

My thoughts are with all of those in Egypt and as always with B's family.

A rather somber, OB

Ramadan 2011

2011-07-31T22:52:00.002+04:00

Well it was announced this evening that tomorrow (August 1, 2011) will be the first day of the holy month of Ramadan in Oman. That means that during daylight hours Muslims will be fasting – no water, food, smoking and things like chewing gum/mints - for either 29 or 30 days. I know quite a lot of expatriates who fast for at least some of the month along with their Muslim colleagues and this will be my second year of fasting the whole way through. I am really looking forward for going out with B for Iftar (the meal you break the fast with) and meeting up with friends in the evenings for snacks and shisha, but must admit to not looking forward to waking up for Suhoor (breakfast before Dawn). Last year I chose not to wake up in the morning for Suhoor on work days as I was too tired.

Most of the restaurants and coffee shops close throughout the day, but a couple of the larger chains such as Pizza Hut apparently offer takeaway options for those not fasting. In the hotels I know they have a couple of restaurants that remain open for non-Muslim guests, but these are usually screened off and I am not sure whether non hotel guests would be allowed to eat there.

The alcohol shops are all closed from now until the end of Ramadan as are the bars. Some of the hotels offer alcohol to in-house guests, but once again I don’t think this is available to non-guests.

Things to watch out for are not wearing appropriate clothing – it is best to make a little more effort when it comes to covering shoulders, chest, knees that sort of thing, but no need to wear an abaya if you don’t want to! Also smoking/drinking/eating in the car could also get you in trouble.

Work hours for most people get reduced while a lot of companies offer separate eating areas for non-Muslims to have lunch so be sure to ask where those are if you aren’t sure!

Anyway use the month as an excuse to learn more about your colleagues and friends religion and traditions as it can be really fun. Plus make sure to accept any Iftar invitations as it is great sitting round with friends and breaking the fast together – plus the food is usually like nothing you will have ever seen before!

Next post is a sweet story I heard about Ramadan Lanterns and the history behind them from B.

Ramadan Kareem :)

OB

Kid’s film festival

2011-07-23T18:45:00.000+04:00

Just a little something for the kids this week. City Cinema Shatti is running a Kid’s Summer Film Festival from today (July 23) till July 27. Basically for each day during this period, the cinema will be showing two children’s films back-to-back (although there is a little break between the two films for the re-stocking of snacks!) from 10.45am (when the first film starts) till 3pm, but most of the films are finished by 2.30pm. The poster also says that you can see both films for the price of one film, so I guess it is around RO3 per person.

The schedule is as follows:
July 24 – Aladdin followed by A Bug’s Life
July 25 – Tarzan followed by Princess & The Frog
July 26 – Finding Nemo followed by Tangled
July 27 – Hercules followed by Monsters Inc (my fave day!)

For further information it is probably best to contact the cinema direct on 24692656 or visit their website.

Yolanda Be Cool in Muscat

2011-07-17T13:53:00.000+04:00

So hand’s up, Yolanda Be Cool might not ring many bells for a lot of people when they hear the name, but two seconds into hearing their 2010 summer hit - We No Speak Americano – and you would have had to have been living in a box for the past year and a bit to not recognise the song.

Well those lovely people at HiFm, Backstage/Nawras (who brought Ne-Yo earlier this year to Oman) and Alive Entertainment are bringing Yolanda Be Cool to Muscat on July 27 at the InterContinental Hotel’s Jabrin Ballroom (the group's website lists another location, but go with the official poster!). The Australian duo will be performing here the day before they take to the stage in Dubai on July 28. Tickets are priced at RO15 per person and you can get tickets from OUA MQ retail outlet or by calling 95555699.

Should be a fun night!

Let us pray

2011-07-13T12:59:00.000+04:00

I think it is fair to say that summer is here with a vengeance and the heat is affecting all the bloggers, as we all seem to have gone into hiding. I wanted to post a funny poem or ode to disappearing bloggers, but couldn’t find anything decent online so decided to have a crack at writing my own. Now I am not a poet and boy do I know it, so be gentle and enjoy!

The Bloggers Prayer

Our blogger who art online,
tried and tested be your name.
Your followers come,
posts will be done,
on wordpress or as it is on blogger.
Give us this day our daily statistics,
and forgive us our spelling mistakes,
as we also have forgiven those rude comments.
And lead us not into login failure,
but deliver us from spam.

Amusing search terms

2011-06-24T01:14:00.002+04:00

Ah the internet. I often find myself wondering how I managed to exist before the internet appeared via a dial-up AOL (I think!) connection in my living room back home. Mum and Dad sat us all down for the most dreaded of events - the family meeting (basically this meant one/all of us were in trouble or Christmas/Easter/birthdays were cancelled that year or that trip to Florida was being replaced with a trip to Cornwall due to budgeting issues) - and told us that yes, we did have a nice new, shiny and very large PC for the adults to use and no, we couldn't use it without their permission.

The noise that dial-up internet made still makes me feel mildly nostalgic, only mildly though I add. It used to signal that soon I would have access to all the silly kid's games I could desire. All disguised of course as "some work I had to do for Miss so-and-so's class". However, as I got older I realised the internet was so much more. There was news, food, pictures of people doing weird things and later on videos of people doing really weird and often illegal things that NEVER happened in my home town!

Now the internet means social networking, iTunes, Youtube and blogging. I am sure all of us have at one point or another typed something into google and giggled at the suggestion list that pops up as we type. While searching for pictures for this post I typed in "girl LOL" and then clicked images - WOAH - big mistake there. It would seem these girls find getting naked worth LOLing about. Shower time must be a real hoot for them!

Anyway, I digress. The reason for this post is I clicked on the Stats section of my blog earlier today and was very amused that among obvious ones such as "30 Seconds to Mars Oman" and "blog Oman" there were gems such as "a girl turns into a mouse in Oman" (don't worry the picture to your left is not a real woman-turned-mouse!) and not one but two searches for "best place to bang expat girls in Oman". Well I only hope I managed to answer those two users questions, but I fear not.

Fellow bloggers, what amusing search terms have people searched for to come across your blogs? Please do share, I think we should have a competition for the most strange ones!

Good deed of the day

2011-06-20T21:38:00.001+04:00

Just a quick public service announcement today as I came across this site on Facebook and thought it would be good to bring a bit more attention to it.

The project ‘I-Care initiative’ was started by Shorooq Abu Nasser and is very simple, but has the potential to have a high impact for those in need in the sultanate. The idea came about after Sharooq was heading home one afternoon and looking forward to spending a couple of hours lying in front of the air conditioning as it was so hot outside. While heading to her house, Sharooq saw a group of construction workers lying in the shade during their break and trying to cool off. She saw that none of them had water bottles so made the decision to go and buy a couple of cold water bottles for the workers.

Instead of just leaving it there, Sharooq decided to start a group encouraging others to think about those men who are helping to build Muscat and show their appreciation by buying them sealed bottles of cold water.

On the Facebook group, Sharooq wrote:

What should you do?

- Buy sealed bottles of COLD water.
- Distribute them on your way to work, home, college, or anywhere!
- Most importantly, SMILE and show them that you appreciate what they are doing!
- Post on the page’s wall and tell us how many bottles you have distributed and how many workers felt appreciated because of YOU.
- Be proud.

Simple, isn’t it?

What? You want your friends and family to join too? GREAT! Just share the link and spread the word =)

Remember, one bottle of water = one good deed!

(CREDIT: Pictures taken from the group’s site – hope that is ok!)

Something to think about...

OB

PS - If you are into art, be sure to check my last post about a new art competition for artists in the Middle East/North Africa

The Art Factor

2011-06-19T23:21:00.001+04:00

Thankfully this competition doesn't involve Cheryl Cole, but saying that neither does the UK (or indeed US!) version anymore so... moving on! Unfortunately I am more than a little artistically challenged so this comp isn’t for me, but there are plenty of talented and emerging artists in the region who could really give their career a boost with the latest project from the Delfina Foundation and Tate Learning. As part of the project, the two groups are holding an open call for applicants from the Middle East and North Africa region to come forward and potentially win a residency in London. The details are posted below:

The residency aims to provide an opportunity for research, engagement, and collaboration with a strand of audiences through Tate's innovative Learning programmes. This residency is aimed at an emerging or mid-career artist, for whom sound and/or performance form the core of their research and practice. The ideal candidate will have proven experience and interest in public and participatory modes of engagement, and will have a strong interest in critically developing their practice in relation to this.

The project will take the format of protracted residency, with the artist travelling to London for a period of six weeks, three times in a single year. The first phase is in February/March 2012 and the final phase of the residency will include a public event to take place at Tate.

For more information and to download an application form, please click here.

Please submit only electronic copies of the above documents to: apply@delfinafoundation.com with DELFINA AND TATE LEARNING RESIDENCY in the subject line.

Closing date for applications: July 18, 2011. All applicants will be notified of the panel's decision in early August 2011.

Also for anyone interested in Arab and specifically Islamic art finds themselves in London with a few hours to spare, you could do a lot worse than visit the V&A gallery as they have dedicated sections to these types of art. It used to be one of my favourite places to lose yourself in!

Let me know if anyone you know applies for this project, it would be great to get someone from Oman involved.

Good luck!

OB

PS: Have a quick look on Muscat Jet Driver's latest post on the apparent end of Qantab Beach. Interesting stuff.

Just keep swimming

2011-06-15T21:51:00.001+04:00

Just a quick one for the more fit readers out there. The InterContinental Hotel Muscat is holding the Muscat Mile Swim on June 24 (Friday). According to the information available on the four Facebook groups for the event – search for Muscat Mile Swim – the event will feature a series of swimming races including 200m, 400m, 800m and 1600m. The twist is that instead of fighting out for top spot in the temperature controlled pool, competitors will be racing in the sea in front of the hotel.

Various prizes are on offer and participants will receive a complimentary breakfast.

In order to take part, participants must register by midday on June 21. On the day, everyone taking part must be on site and registered by 6.30am so the races can begin at 7am. There is no cost to take past.

For details, contact muscatswim@gmail.com or call Lea on 95784991. Special rates for those wanting to spend the night after the event are available.

Also for people looking to swim regularly in a group, there is the Muscat Amateur Swimming Association who holds regular swims on Thursday mornings and helps you hook up with like-minded people.

Have a nice weekend!

OB

Asking for help

2011-06-07T13:04:00.001+04:00

I was amazed at the response I received following my post on being bipolar. A lot of people emailed me rather than posting a comment and I truly hope they manage to get the help they need. It shows that there is a real lack of support and awareness out there.

A number of psychiatrists or councilors also contacted me with details for their clinics so I thought it would be a good idea to post them all together so anyone looking for help can find the numbers easily. I cannot vouch for how good any of these clinics are as I have not used them so this is not a recommendation, but merely a summary of what is available in Muscat.

1 – Clare al Turihi, comes highly recommended by a number of people who emailed or commented. She practices at Al Harub Medical Centre in Shatti al Qurum and can be contacted on 24600750 or 95925802.

2 – Dr Firas, also from Al Harub Medical Centre in Shatti al Qurum. Can be contacted on 24600750.

3 – Laura Do Vale, a clinical psychologist and psychotherapist at Muscat Private Hospital. Contact 24583705.

4 – Dr Ali, a female psychiatrist who works with individuals, families and children. Contact 99823151.

Best of luck :)

Bookworm heaven

2011-06-06T22:39:00.000+04:00

I love reading. When I first found out I was moving to Oman, my first concern wasn’t what shoes or DVDs I was going to take, but what was going to happen with my books. I came here with three books – a copy of Murder on the Orient Express by Agatha Christie (my favourite book in the whole world and slightly influenced by the fact my mum read it while she was pregnant with me), Runaway Jury by John Grisham and some crappy chick-lit thing I purchased in the airport terminal to read on the plane.

All my books in the UK got boxed up, but my love of all things readable continues and I now need to get a second bookshelf for here as I have brought so many new ones.

I came across this website – Omani Book Mania, a few weeks back and keep meaning to write a review or two for them. I think it is a great idea as there seems to be very limited chances for bookworms to get together and discuss their latest reads, so putting it online is a thing of genius so well done to the team for thinking of it. Reviews can be submitted in both Arabic and English.

This evening I checked the site and saw they have are having their first club read where anyone can pick up the chosen book – Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows – in this case and have a read. A schedule of how many chapters should be read by when has been included in the post and this allows everyone to give feedback at the same time and reduces the chance of people posting spoilers. Now I admit I won’t be taking part as despite being a fan of the films, I have very little interest in reading the books as they aren’t my thing, but that doesn’t reduce the fact it is a great idea.

I hope people will take part in the club read or by posting reviews so the site can grow into a really good resource for those who enjoy a good book.

“A house without books is like a room without windows.” - Heinrich Man

OB

Letter of disgust

2011-05-24T21:18:00.000+04:00

Dear anyone driving down A Sarooj Street on May 23 at around 2.30pm,

Firstly can I just say how ashamed of yourselves you should be. How would you feel if your mother or father or sister or brother was stood in public while clearly in distress and in need of help and everyone just drove/walked past them as if they were a nuisance? I would be appalled and unfortunately this was exactly what I witnessed on Monday.

While driving through the area on my way to a meeting with a colleague, we spotted an elderly man – clearly 70s/80s years of age standing on the side of the road in the baking sun. At first glance it looked as though he was just waiting for a cab as he had his arm raised in the air – something we all see on a regular basis. But as we got closer – the traffic was crawling along – we saw he was not only old, but blind, sweating profusely and looked seriously distressed.

We decided to turn round and ask him where he needed to go or if he needed any help. While turning round, a taxi stopped for the man and we assumed he was going to be ok now as we waited for him to get in the taxi. I hope the taxi driver knows what he did next was wrong. As soon as the old man had got in and shut the door after talking to the driver, we saw the taxi driver look as if he was ordering him out as the man got back out the car.

My colleague and I pulled over. My colleague (an Omani) approached the man and asked him if he needed help. I have never seen someone look so happy in their life. It turned out the man had come to the area regarding his money problems. He lived in the interior and had been waiting for a friend/family member to come pick him up and take him back home. This other person hadn’t shown up.

All the man wanted was to be dropped on the main highway so he could get a taxi towards the clock roundabout (Seeb). We guided him to the car, stopped off and got him some water and juice, then took him to where he wanted to go. It took us five minutes maximum of our time.

This man was blind, broke, hot, tired, distressed and alone. Yet he told us afterwards he had been waiting by that busy road for ten-15 minutes. It must have felt like a lifetime in that heat. I know we are all suspicious of beggers and those in need as we read so many stories of people wanting money for drugs, alcohol or other non-essential things. But have we all got so disillusioned that we cannot recognise a man clearly in need? Really?

What if you were in desperate need of help, but everyone refused because they claimed to be too busy or accused you of just wanting to make a quick buck?

Something to think about.

A real floater!

2011-05-16T21:21:00.005+04:00

I remember as a kid being made to eat my vegetables before my parents would let me eat dessert and thinking to myself “When I’m older I am going to eat exactly what I want… when I want.” Now as all of us now know, being an adult isn’t quite as fun as we all thought it was going to be! Yes we can eat what we want but those metabolisms aren’t as quick as they used to be and eventually you end up craving something healthy.

Whenever I am having a bad day, I do tend to lean towards the comfort eating side of coping and have been trying to satisfy my sweet tooth without overdoing the calories. Things like making fresh popcorn myself so I can control how much sugar or salt goes onto it plus only having one or two biscuits instead of the whole pack! But we all have our weaknesses…

And that weakness came out today. While driving home from work I had the world’s largest craving for a root beer float! My mum loves root beer so we used to get a big case of it every now and then from the local cash & carry (massive discount store) and I developed the obsession! So a quick stop off at The Sultan Centre followed by a few cans of root beer and a tub of the cheapest vanilla ice-cream I could find and I was on my way.
For those of you who haven’t heard of these – it is basically fizzy drink with a few scoops of ice-cream on top and it is AMAZING. It works really well with Coke and Cherry Coke, but Root Beer will always be the number one for me.

B thinks it is disgusting and looks at me like I need locking up every time I make one, but he also thinks root beer tastes like medicine… so you can’t win with everyone!

What is your childhood vice that you can’t resist every now and then? Don’t even get me started on the EPIC wonder of Zaap ice-lollies and Party Rings!

OB
PS. Given how hot it has got in the past week or so, I think this should become a government endorsed way of cooling down!

Blogging in Oman

2011-05-10T19:04:00.005+04:00

After reading Oman Collective Intelligence's list of the 15 most popular blogs in Oman, I got thinking about the bloggers I love reading, but wished they blogged more!

So here is my completly biased and highly scientific *cough* top 5 bloggers in Oman that need to get a typing:

1 - Makorani's - Written by the lovely Noora, this girl should have a column somewhere. I especially loved her posts about wearing the hijab and the photo of her at the pyramids - we have all pretended to take photos of ourselves so we can get snaps of the cute guy behind us... haven't we? :)
2 - Gavtol in Oman - There is only one word needed to describe how great this blog is - MILF. I have driven past that sign a thousand times and it still makes me laugh!
3 - Is This Serious - That right combination of anger (hell, we have all been there!) and humour. It scares me how much I agree with her posts though!
4 - Omani Cuisine - One word. FOOD! I think we should start up a support fund for these guys so they can eat out more and tell us what's worth queing for and what is worth ignoring.
5 - Reality in Oman - What happened to her?! PLEASE COME BACK!

Plus there are a few new blogs that I have started following lately and are well worth a look:

1 - Bethany Duffield - Fab photographer based in Sohar blogging about photography, marriage and her new addition to the family.
2 - Secret Salalah - A very clever idea posting all the secret little spots to visit in Salalah... they won't stay secret for long!
3 - Rummy's Scriblings - A short Muscati chatterbox that makes me giggle.

Who do you think is a blogger you wish posted more? Any news blogs you suggest following? SHARE :)

OB

The search is over

2011-05-06T21:59:00.006+04:00

*For the sake of this post, I am going to write as if it is 100% certain that Osama bin Laden is dead, but I know there are those of you out there who don’t believe he is for whatever reason.*

The statement released apparently from Al-Qaeda:

“We stress that the blood of the holy warrior sheik, Osama bin Laden, God bless him, is precious to us and to all Muslims and will not go in vain. We will remain, God willing, a curse chasing the Americans and their agents, following them outside and inside their countries. Soon, God willing, their happiness will turn to sadness. Their blood will be mingled with their tears.”

So… America got their revenge last week and declared that Osama bin Laden had been killed. I must admit to feeling very little when I heard the news. While I think what happened to catapult bin Laden into the average person’s mind – 9/11 – was a despicable and unforgivable thing that demanded justice, I could not help wondering what clarity that would give the victim’s families or how in his death, bin Laden would just become a martyr for extremists.

Yes, the army that went in to confront him should have shot to disable not to kill… but how do you trust a man who has spent a significant portion of his life telling the world how much he hates your country, its’ people and saying he would destroy it in a heartbeat. I am not a big fan of the US, but what’s done is done. If bin Laden is dead, then I think they did the right think in dropping him into the sea – does a man who denied proper burials for many of those murdered on 9/11 deserve the chance to become a full blown martyr? Was this the US’s chance to be “the bigger person” in the (and I hate this phrase) War on Terror? If he is still alive, then surely he is captured otherwise he could just appear on TV again telling the west how he hates us all.

The saddest thing to come out of the killing for me is the anti-Muslim and anti-west remarks/protests I have heard or seen taking place since. I very much believe that the people who carry out these so called honour-killings, act as suicide bombers or threaten the West are not true Muslims, in the same way I believe these white nutters antagonising pro-bin Laden groups at the US Embassy in London or blaming Islam for their problems are not a good indication of the UK and its’ people.

Revenge and justice are funny things. Someone who is raped might just want the whole thing to go away and push it to the back of their mind, or they might decide to make getting justice against their attacker their life’s work. Just in the same way someone who lost a loved one in the Twin Towers on 9/11 or in London on 7/7 or the 2008 attacks in Mumbai may choose to just move on as best as they can or push for blood.

Should those who celebrated his death have done so? I don’t know. Was it for many part of the grief process? I should imagine so. But I don’t understand how we can judge other people’s grief against our own and claim their fear’s are not as valid as our own. We all know that it is likely something will happen in revenge for the killing because this is a vicious circle where each side seeks – rightly or wrongly – vengeance for those acts against them. Where does it end?

Being bipolar updated

2011-04-15T02:11:00.003+04:00

Sometimes I have trouble remembering a time when I didn’t get scared when I had a low day, but I know the first 15 or so years of my life must have been heaven. I thought about doing this post a while ago but decided against it as I didn’t see what the point was. So when the story came out last week that Catherine Zeta Jones had admitted herself into a psychiatric hospital (let’s drop the term mental hospital right NOW) as a sufferer of bipolar II disorder, I decided that maybe it would be a good time to get things out in the open.

I remember all of those years ago when the doctor came to see me in the hospital with a rather grumpy looking woman who was going to “have a little talk to me”. Even at 15 – as I was when signs of depression began to show – I knew I wasn’t quite right. I would shout and scream for no apparent reason and when people asked me what was wrong I would just break down. I even remember watching a comedy film and laughing as my parents nipped out to the shops, on their return I was slumped in my chair crying but didn’t know why.

No. I’m not nuts. Thanks for asking. It took a while and a few close calls with medication, but it all made me stronger. I am however one of the lucky ones. I still have my bad days and being bipolar is something I will live with forever, but – and it took me a long time to realise this – it is nothing to be ashamed of. A few years ago I had a bad few months in Oman and it was all made worse by the fact I couldn’t find anyone to help. For me, one of my biggest problems is being out of control and the struggle I faced trying to find a professional to talk to almost led to me packing up my bags and moving away from here. Luckily I got through it and live to fight another day, yet it showed how difficult it can be for not just expats like myself who have psychological problems but locals themselves.

B is very understanding, but to be honest with you it took time. At first he thought I was telling him I was the equivalent of all those “crazy people” you see in Hollywood films and I was hearing voices, talking with the dead and considering throwing myself in front of a bus every 30 seconds, but he got there. Yet it was hard for him as he has had it drummed into him since birth that mental illnesses are something to hide away and not talk about.

A few of my friends here know about my illness and what amazed me was the amount of them (many of whom are Omani) that could say “Oh yeah I know someone who has similar problems, but she doesn’t see anyone… her family won’t allow it” or “crazy people bring shame on the family”. WOAH – I am sorry, I didn’t realise that illness bought shame on the family. So if your little brother breaks his leg after being hit by a car when walking sensibly on the pavement he has bought shame on the family? Because that is basically what you are saying – he is living his life then when something outside of his control happens to him he should he ashamed?

If anyone has any contact details for psychiatrists or councilors in Oman please do let me know and I will post them up here. My final message to anyone out there suffering. Don’t do it alone. Get the courage to talk to someone you trust and if they knock you back or don’t take it seriously, don’t give up. They are probably as nervous as you are about talking about it.

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*UPDATE* Thanks to Stefani for posting details of Claire al Turihi at Al Harub Medical Centre. She can be contacted on 24600750. I was amazed at the response this post got not just from comments below, but emails too. Thanks. OB

Protests – not about a dictator or free internet!

2011-03-26T20:02:00.005+04:00

Nope, not another post about protests in Oman, but one about the protest taking place right NOW in the UK. The famous Ritz hotel has been damaged, reports of shop windows on Oxford Street being broken and police were hit with what appeared to be paint bombs. What is their problem? The recent cuts announced for this year’s budget. In what is reportedly the biggest protest march in the UK since the 2003 Iraq war march, an estimated 500,000 people took to the streets by 3pm and many remained peaceful. Yet, with all protests there are always a few who are out to cause trouble.

Thoughts on Oman has a really interesting post about the march and (as I said in a comment to him) I mainly agree. However, the last general election was an usual one as many people were angry with the then ruling party – Labour, but not angry enough to vote Conservative. They made what I think most will now agree was a mistake and voted Lib Dem. What a waste that was. A few days later and the coalition was announced. I think a lot of people did not realise how much their vote really mattered and this is not a mistake they will easily make again.

The cuts are to a certain extent necessary as the last government did massively overspend – two wars will do that to you. Yet are making cuts to schools, hospitals and other essential services the way forward? Perhaps we should have considered a cheaper Olympics bid… hell, if they want to save a bit of cash I know some Dell Boy-esque builders in Oman who would be happy to come shave off a few quid.

Well, I am off to observe Earth Hour. Have a nice evening all and take a few minutes to pop over and read Happily Married to a Biker's latest post about the Autism Awareness Walk on April 1, 2011. It starts at 4pm at Bareeq al Shatti and will go onto Qurum Park.

When the going gets good, the good get greedy

2011-03-25T19:08:00.012+04:00

Greedy: Definition - Excessively desirous of acquiring or possessing,
especially wishing to possess more than what one needs or deserves.

As Donna Summer and Barbra Streisand said in No More Tears, “Enough is Enough”. I realise lots of people have genuine grievances – maternity leave and pay for example is seriously lacking in Oman – but things are beginning to get a bit silly now. It seems like many of the complaints and reasons behind the protests are just a bit greedy – the latest of which is rumoured to be Omantel staff who are apparently requesting free internet, mobiles and landlines. I for one really hope this is not a real demand.

How will that make things better for your country? For your fellow Omanis? And those who are actually being mistreated in the workplace? Does that help the economy and increase tourism? There isn’t oil at the end of the rainbow you know – if there was, it would have been drilled by now!

All greed is going to do is drive your companies to the ground and in the end make them less productive or perhaps even unable to employ as many people. It just feels like everyone saw that they got some big changes such as the ministers being replaced, then went “wait a sec... how far can we push this?”

Reports of nurses and doctors wanting the pass grades reduced scared the hell out of me. People already have a very sketchy view of medical care in Oman – a lot of which is not justified as I have known local doctors in Oman from both the good and bad side – but how does lowering the pass grade make the patient feel more at ease or improve healthcare? A friend of mine back in the UK trained as a nurse and when I told her what was going on here, she said, “If they think the training is hard, then they should just quit now and save themselves the hassle in the future.”

Where does it end? Those working in supermarkets never again paying for their weekly food shop? Staff in restaurants being allowed to eat out for free whenever they like? The banking sector getting unlimited free money? Petrol station pump attendants filling their car for free and allowed a never-ending supply of Dunkin Donuts? I hope that doesn’t give anyone any ideas, though protesting for free doughnuts does sound like something worth considering.

*Sigh* I genuinely hope real reforms such as revised maternity and indeed paternity are successful, plus an end to wasta winning over real talent, but is that what some really want or do they just want free stuff?

OB

I'm protesting against stupidity

2011-03-09T21:58:00.006+04:00

Right, I am going to try and write this without swearing. So apologies if the odd one or two slip in here and there.

I was flicking through Google news searching for stories on Oman and in particular about the recent protests here. I read an awful lot of rubbish about how people were unable to sleep at night due to fear and how everyone was apparently stocking up “just in case”. In case of what?
But my all time favourite story (and this is where the swearing might sneak in) is THIS story. Now give it a read before you continue reading, don’t worry. I’ll wait…..

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Were you as appauled as I was? The only decent paragraph in the entire thing is the second to last one at the end by a journalist who clearly has her head screwed on. Every other person quoted needs to take a damn hard look at themselves in the mirror and calm the hell down. WHAT “anti-outsider” tone? I am an outsider and can say with all honesty that all the Omanis I have spoken to in the past two or so weeks have NEVER expressed that they consider myself, my fellow brits or my mainly Indian colleagues for the fact they are unemployed.

The burning of Lulu Hypermarket (part of a mega chain of stores with an Indian expatriate at the helm) has contributed to that fear.

Oh for goodness sake. Was this sentence even necessary? Who knows why they burnt LuLu, did anyone even bother to ask why? With no offence meant towards Sohar, it is probably because there is sod all else there to burn down! The LuLu is well known as being one of the biggest things there, so what if it just so happens to have an Indian expatriate at the helm. Part of the protestors complaints were that food prices are going up, who do people always blame – even in the UK – for prices going up… the big supermarkets for outpricing all the little guys. Come on people, let’s use some common sense.

What will happen if we die? The police or the military will not protect us

Well I don’t mean to be the bringer of bad news. But if you are dead, why would the police or military need to protect you?

According to various reports, money exchanges and even the burnt hypermarket was later ransacked by people, including expatriates

Ah, ok so now we are getting down to it. At first it was suggested that because LuLu is run by an Indian expatriate that is why it was targeted, but now it says expatriates were also taking part in the looting. So which is it?

Our feeling is one of resentment. We will begin to lose our jobs if the government decides to move towards localisation.”

I’m sorry but that is their right. This isn’t your country. As the saying goes, “If you don’t like
it. Leave.” Yes locals should be hired over expatriates, why shouldn’t they? But this should only be done if the locals being hired are as skilled as the job demands. If they aren’t then no there is
point hiring someone just because they are local.

I’m wondering whether I should shift to Dubai or Abu Dhabi.

*sigh*

Mary, a journalist in Muscat, however, is convinced that since the government has already extended a conciliatory hand to the protesters, there is nothing to worry about. “The protests were bound to happen,” she said. “The cost of living has increased and there are so many young educated, unemployed Omanis … localisation of jobs is something that was bound to happen - Indians should take it in good spirit.”

Well thank god someone had an ounce of common sense. Please tell me I wasn’t the only one who found this article utterly embarrassing to the majority of expatriates here? Rant over :)

International Women’s Day

2011-03-08T22:01:00.009+04:00

I wasn’t going to write a post about International Women’s Day until I showed my younger brother the James Bond video embedded below. After watching it he asked me what it was all about. I explained it had been done as part of International Women’s Day to highlight the problems women still face and he replied, “No one cares, get back to the kitchen.” Now I know he was joking and I did laugh at his response, but it made me realise the sad fact that not everyone would make that remark and be joking.

It got me thinking about who are the women that inspired or influenced me and why, so here is a little list for you. How many do you agree with and who are the women that inspired you?

1) Anne Frank – I remember as a child reading her diary in school and not knowing whether to cry or be thankful it wasn’t me. I have always thought that people should talk about difficult things because otherwise how can we learn from them and I think Anne’s diary of her fight for survival as a Jew in Nazi Germany is one we can all learn from in one way or another.

2) Marilyn Monroe – As someone who had a lot of difficulties as a teenager and hid them away, I remember a close friend telling me that Monroe (who I had always thought was fab!) also had a lot of problems and hid them away but died in the end because she didn’t ask for help. She told me I could either die early by not listening to those trying to help me or I could take control. I owe that girl my life.

3) Rosie Whitehouse – At university I brought her book “Are We There Yet?” when Rosie gave a speech as I had always been interested in life abroad and the impact it can have on family life. It is one of my favourite books now. Rosie now runs Reportage Press and their books are well worth a read as they are a real eye-opener.

4) Germaine Greer – Ah, well she had to feature somewhere right? While studying Sociology my teacher told us that we were about to move into the Feminism chapter of our course and all the boys groaned. I loved listening to the different types of feminist out there and while I didn’t always agree with Greer, I did respect what she said and she stood out for me.

5) Shirin Ebadi – With this woman I don’t even need to say why she inspires me. Shirin was not just Iran’s first female judge but also the first Iranian and first Muslim woman to be awarded the Nobel peace prize. One word – WOW.

6) Nawal el Saadawi – She might be 80 years old, but when the protests kicked off in Egypt earlier this year, Nawal was there on the streets with everyone else. You name it, she talks about. A real inspiration for women out there who think their culture or religion stops them from defending their rights.

7) Delia Smith/Nigella Lawson – these two get clubbed together because they are both domestic goddesses but from different times. No dinner party or chance to show off in the kitchen is complete without something from these two waiting in the wings. They are the domestic goddesses that I will never be.

8) My mum – No list would be complete without her. The woman who put up with my tantrums, tears, screams and abuse but never stopped loving me. She is the one woman that has inspired me above all and for that I am forever grateful.

So what do you think? Who inspired you?

OB

Protests in Oman

2011-03-01T14:20:00.003+04:00

I know I have been a little slow in blogging about these protests in Oman (NEVER thought I would use those three words!), but I thought I would do a quick something now as this information may be of use to someone out there. Will do something more opinionated later.

First of all I would like to say to those of you back in the UK worrying... don't! Things for those of us in Muscat are currently fine. I have had trouble noticing much difference here except for less traffic in the evenings and an increase in police presence.

Things do seem to have gotten a bit more complicated in the Sohar area with reports of anything between one and six people being reported as killed and numerous of individuals injured. The LuLu store in Sohar was burnt and ransacked by apparent protestors – but when by the way did we start confusing protestors with thugs and vandals?

I have been keeping an eye on this blog by an expat couple in Sohar. Well worth a look for news on the area. Plus Muscat Mutterings is doing a round up of all the news coming off various sources.

Oh, and for the time being, let’s stop hitting that re-tweet button on Twitter everyone. CNN seem particular fond of it right now, re-tweeting every bit of information and scaring the crap out of the families of those of us in Oman. My parents have read everything from “Oman is on fire” to comparisons of Oman to Egypt and how Oman is apparently “the next Libya!”

For those Brits or “un-represented Commonwealth community” in Sohar, the British Ambassador is coming to the area to meet with you TODAY. Details are below:

The Ambassador and Vice Consul are travelling to Sohar today to meet members of the British and un-represented Commonwealth community. Our travel advice remains in effect stating that 'you should maintain a high level of security awareness, particularly in public places. You should avoid large gatherings and demonstrations.'

Traffic jams are occurring around the Port area and Globe roundabout. No western interests are being targeted by demonstrators.

If you are in the Sohar area and wish to meet with the Ambassador and Vice Consul they will be at the Sohar Beach hotel by 18:00 (6pm) tonight.

So stay safe and avoid the Azaiba area this evening, as reports are that there will be a pro-Sultan march in the area of the Grand Mosque.

OB

Muscat International School Carnival

2011-02-25T12:42:00.003+04:00

I spotted this post on the Muscat Buy or Sell group this morning and thought I would post it on here in the chance someone out there can help this good cause. The post is copied below and was posted by Ranju Didwania.

My dear friends in Muscat need your HELP!!!!!!!!! for school Carnival. It’s the biggest charity drive by Muscat International School every year (on 10th March 4pm -7pm). We are supporting SQU Child Cancer unit, AL Noor Association for blind, National Cancer Awareness Association, the deaf and dumb school and Dar Al Atta to name but fe...w. Your support in this venture is crucial please help me with sponsors who can donate cash or gifts or vouchers. If you have any unwanted gift (new) you can donate us and we can sell it and raise money during carnival. If you know anyone who would like to set up stall at school can do so by paying RO 25. Any money given to us will be acknowledged and you will be given receipt for the same. Sponsors can put up their banner and your name will appear on the list of sponsors. THANKS looking forward to positive response. If u want to contact me - 92209331.

30 Seconds to Mars - Update

2011-02-21T19:45:00.003+04:00

Information updated to include prices

It has been confirmed that the show will be taking place at the InterContinental Gardens from 7:30pm to 11pm so we will see how a rock show comes across there.

Prices are also out now. Tickets are priced RO20, while VIP tickets cost RO40. No info yet as to what VIP gets you but it is probably similar to the earlier gigs where you get nicer toilets and a welcome drink. Tickets can be purchased from the Nawras stores in Muscat City Centre and Qurum City Centre, plus the outlet in Azaiba. Shababiah customers get the discounted ticket prices so pay RO15 for general entry and RO35 for VIP passes.

For more information call 95555699. The details above are nicked off the Hi Fm event Facebook page, so join that for details as they come out. There is also a note on the site saying that there is no age limit, so good news for you teens looking for a fun night out.

Glad to see I am not the only one looking forward to the show, see you all there! :)

30 Seconds To Mars in Muscat

2011-02-19T22:55:00.003+04:00

I am not embarrassed to admit that I did a little scream when I heard the news on HiFm tonight. But for those of you who missed it and didn't read the title of this post.... HiFm are bringing 30 Seconds To Mars to Muscat on March 10!

Fab news for those of us with slightly edgier - or indeed more recent - tastes than Bryan Adams and Tom Jones!

No other details have been released yet, but for more info keep an eye on twitter.com/hifmradio or visit their website for new updates.

I am wondering where they will hold the concert. Surely the InterContinental isn't going to handle a rock concert well?! And I hope for the band's sake they don't try and hold it in the same hall in MQ that housed that Sean Kingston flop. Where do you think would be a good venue? Will you be going? Will Muse be next? (Well... I can dream can't I?)

Help a blogger - bike stolen in Muscat

2011-02-04T13:48:00.004+04:00

Fellow (and rather lovely!) blogger in Oman, Happily Married to a Biker, posted to say that her husband's bike had been stolen from 18 November Street on February 3. I have copied her post below (hope that is ok!) in the hope someone will have some information for her. The plate number and contact numbers if you have any information are all below. I hope you find it :) OB
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MY HUSBANDS BIKE WAS STOLEN TODAY MORNING

Honda XR 650 L

Plate number: 2842 L K Color: Red

Stolen from 18 November Street
On the 3rd of February 2011
Theft has been reported to the police.
If you have any information about the vehicle pictured above please call:
(968)99748968
(968) 99376399
Information leading to the finding of Honda XR will be rewarded.

Egypt continued

2011-02-03T12:38:00.004+04:00

I am a big believer that a picture can say a thousand words so instead of writing another long opinionated piece, I thought I would just share some of my favourite photographs to come out of the crisis in Egypt. Christians protecting Muslims while they pray on the streets (and let us not forget, vice versa), women throwing back their veils so their voices can be heard and the poor standing side by side with the wealthy. Religion, wealth, gender, age, tribe or skin colour are all meaningless when you are fighting for what is right. This is one message that I hope the people of Egypt will take away with them when things resume some form of normality.

Protest fever

2011-01-26T20:27:00.005+04:00

I know, I know. Sorry about that folks. Back to business with something a bit deeper than my readers might be used to.

Has anyone else felt as if they are watching everything fall apart around them right now? As those of us in Muscat drink our third or fourth Starbucks of the week, complain about the traffic and contemplate whether we spend the weekend by the beach or driving up in the mountains, people in the world are fighting for what they believe in. People assume that those of us living in the Middle East deal with protests, suicide bombers and crazy dictators on a daily basis. But for me at least, in Oman, the restrictions are not so obvious – except pork, alcohol and media related. I have found it fascinating watching the events in Tunisia and Egypt unfolding – one of those real “watching history unfold” type moments.

So I found myself wondering about the state of affairs here in Oman and indeed in my home country. Yes, the student protests about the increase in tuition fees in the UK sparked outcry in how both some students and indeed, some police, handled the situation. But we were allowed to protest. No one could stop us as we had the right to make our voices heard.

Then came the recent events in Tunisia. A few weeks later, Oman was the next country to get protest fever as around 200 Omanis chose to protest against corruption and high prices in the sultanate. Muscat Mutterings did a great round up of the protest.

But what has been happening in Egypt seems to be taking a much more violent and sinister feel. Egypt has a population around eight times higher than that of Tunisia so if any country has enough people power behind it to pull off a revolution, it is them. True to their nature, the government has allegedly chose to block the following sites - Google, Youtube, Facebook and Twitter – in a pathetic attempt at stopping information getting to the outside. As similar incidents in Iran showed – this doesn’t work. It just makes the people angrier.

The latest information relating to these blocks is that the group Anonymous, who are best known for supporting Wikileaks by carrying out a range of online-attacks against various websites, has threatened to attack government websites in Egypt if they do not “offer free access to uncensored media in your entire country”. You can read their full statement here.
Having visited Egypt, I was aware of the hostility and anger felt by many locals when it came to Hosni Mubarak so it came as little surprise to hear that amid the protests, Gamal Mubarak – his son - and his family have fled to London. The Guardian’s correspondent in Cairo has alleged that he was arrested and beaten. While there have also been numerous claims that some protestors and activists have had their mobile phones targeted and blocked. Vodafone Egypt is among the providers alleged to have helped block these people’s phones. Many of these details can be found on the Guardian site.

So my question is, when do you step in and when do you leave it alone? How much is too much when it comes to civil unrest? Will the army steer clear and let everything continue? What right does the army, if indeed any, to step in? If the UK has taken Mubarak’s son in, how long will he stay there? Is Egypt ready for a revolution? An interesting article I found by Abigail Hauslohner suggests otherwise. What do you think about the protests? Or indeed, protesting in general? Does it get the job done or is it more hassle than it is worth?

I for one will be glued to the TV over the weekend, so sorry if I am late at replying to comments.

OB

Jingle Bells

2010-12-21T21:20:00.003+04:00

Four more sleeps until Christmas and yet I feel about as Christmassy as mid-July. Every year I tell myself I will get more organised and buy presents throughout the year. Every year I tell myself next year will be my year and I will finally organise my life and stop forgetting birthdays and important days. Ah well, bring on 2011!

B and I can’t decide where to go yet on Christmas Day. I was planning to cook, but then the oven thermostat died again so that is not even worth considering. Muscat Mutterings has done a fab round-up of what is going on over the Christmas and New Year period so hopefully I will get myself sorted soon. If you haven’t checked out his list yet, get over there soon and have a peak.

As for present buying – that begins and hopefully ends on Thursday! B now knows that I have this blog, so this year I will bypass Santa and put my Christmas list up here. Take note ;)

1) Espresso machine. It is costing me a fortune for my daily caffeine kick, might as well invest. Any suggestions on a good one that isn’t going to cost the earth?
2) Gym membership. Might as well combine my present with my New Year’s resolution to tone my behind up.
3) Cinema “season ticket”. Well we might as well seen as we spend more time at the movies than at home.
4) A nice relaxing mini-break in the style of Bridget Jones – without the poetry and boating on the lake!

What have you all asked Santa for this year? I have a feeling B is up to something... but who knows.

Oh and as a little bonus to all you iTunes fans who have iPods, iPads, iPhones and all that shebang.... iTunes are giving away free gifts for the 12 days of Christmas after Christmas! It starts on December 16 and runs until January . Each day you receive a free app, film, song, music video or game. It is free to sign up for and brilliant. I used it last year and got some great freebies that I still have on my iPod. For more info, click on the iTunes site here.

Merry Christmas all,

OB xx

Admin, Christmas & Fireworks

2010-12-16T00:20:00.003+04:00

Right, sorry for that little delay. Things have been rather busy as I try to sort B out with his seemingly never-ending paperwork! Did you all enjoy the holidays? I have been following this very new blog, The Anglo-Omani Observer, - it's only been up for a few weeks, and already I felt the need to comment. Normally I am too lazy to do so!

Christmas is right round the corner and I haven't even began to consider what to buy. Each year my family claims anything would be great.... or that old chestnut, "oh we don't need a present, you coming home for a few days is present enough." What utter B011ocks! If I turned up at Heathrow empty-handed saying, "Oh did you actually want a present?" She will do a 360 in the car park and be gone before you can say, "Bah humbug." How will you all be celebrating this year? Can't decide between going out for dinner, cooking at home or just chilling at the beach with a bbq on the go - decide for me please?

The World Firework Championships have been taking place over the past few weeks. It has been nice to watch, but hilarious to hear how everyone in Muscat is now an expert in explosives. I however, being a complete hypocrite was full of advice for the competitors!

So far my favourite show has been the English company Merlin on December 10 - I know I might be accused of being biased but I just thought everything from the fireworks chosen, to the colour scheme, the music, the pace... oh and that finale, was spot on. Hong-Kong is a very close second, while Italy is close behind. America and Australia - I promise I don't have a problem with countries beginning with A! - were a real disappointment but I think the USA is currently bringing up the rear, so to speak. The final show is France on December 17 and we will find out the judges choice on December 18. Does anyone know how the judges will actually be judging because something one person likes another might not... how do you judge pretty explosions?!

Bang goes the diet

2010-11-14T15:43:00.003+04:00

I have been trying so hard to lose a few pounds, but my obsession with food blogs and anything baked is proving too tempting to handle. I was doing rather well until I saw this on the fabulous Spicy Icecream blog. Swoon.

It is like a banoffee-mouse-cake. What is not to like?! The photograph shown is taken from the blog, hope that is ok?

Maybe I will try and make a low-fat version over the Eid holidays…. Or more likely just make this one and scoff the lot.

Talking of Eid, what is everyone up to for the break?

A little rant

2010-11-11T18:17:00.003+04:00

Right, as my mother always taught me – let’s start with a positive. Eid Mubarak! Muscat Mutterings has done a fab round up of what is going on in Muscat at the moment. So if you haven’t already had a look, pop over and have a read. Old news now, but Angry in Oman is back! I am so happy, it is nice to read something out there from someone who doesn’t hold back ☺

Now down to the negatives.

I am so fed up of listening to people complain about the Eid holidays. A holiday is a holiday! A few of my Omani friends – who work in the government sector – were complaining about how unfair it is that they are “ONLY” getting three official days (but we all know it is four really as how many work on a Friday?) off whereas last year they got… blah blah blah. Seriously?

I reminded them that they are receiving a bonus, but they didn’t get why that mattered. I remember getting a bonus once – yeah just the once, no hope for me this year – and being so happy that I felt appreciated and as if what I was doing meant something. I never thought “oh yay a bonus – I hope I get more than the usual three days holiday for Christmas.”

Come on people, be a little more grateful. How big of a bonus do you think those labourers working relentlessly by the road are getting? How much time off do you think they will get for Eid – really? Yes, you might work ‘long hours’ – try 12 hour days and little hope of getting home to see your family for another year.

A big part of Eid al Adha is sacrificing an animal and sharing the meat among your family, friends and the poor. So remember those less fortunate when you are complaining about how little time you get off or how you expected a bigger bonus.

It isn’t just the locals I hasten to add and I know many Omanis who cannot stand all the complaining – so please no “it isn’t all of us you know” type comments because I know that. As an expatriate I am not getting a bonus – as far as I am aware. Do I deserve one – well I would be a fool to say no, but will I kick up a fuss if nothing materialises for those in my company…. Of course not.

Now, chin up and have a nice weekend all. Will try to be a little cheerier in my next post.

OB

Heads up

2010-10-28T18:02:00.003+04:00

I promise I am not paid to say this.

A quick heads up for the ladies. A friend was telling me that Grand Spa in Ghubra will be offering free henna for hands on November 10 as part of the national day celebrations. Not sure if you have to be an existing customer or not but worth a look! It would be just in time for Eid too.

The number for the Ghubra branch is 24613453

Any other good offers anyone knows of?

Have a nice weekend :)

OB

Another sad tale from Oman

2010-10-10T17:48:00.001+04:00

I hate the way some of my colleagues treat the guy who comes in the evenings to clear up our mugs and how people I know talk to their housemaids as if they are thick. But as most expats and indeed Omanis know, this is just how some people are and until someone steps up and does something, it is a problem that will continue to happen.

While this story is not of a sponsor mistreating a housemaid, it is of a housemaid being mistreated and in my opinion let down by those who should have cared for her. A 40 year old woman who was on her way back home is now dead and I sincerely hope an investigation is launched from this end – but that may just be wishful thinking.

The story below is taken from Gulf News website.

Woman dies after loss of passport at Doha airport

Procedural delay cost stranded Indian passenger her life

Muscat: A traumatised Indian housemaid, who was stranded in a transit lounge of Muscat airport for five days after losing her passport at the Doha airport, died while being taken to Bin Sina Psychiatric Hospital late on Friday.

The passenger, identified as Beebi Lumada, 40, was travelling from Muscat to Chennai via Doha by Qatar Airways last Sunday but lost her passport while in transit at the Doha airport.

"When her passport was not found, she was sent back to the port of origin — Muscat," a Qatar Airways' official told Gulf News on the condition of anonymity. He said that the airline followed the regulations in sending her back to the place of origin.

The housemaid had cancelled her Oman residence visa and was returning home. Since she didn't carry her passport, she was not allowed to re-enter Muscat by Oman's immigration authorities.

"We informed immigration about the situation and also intimated the Indian Embassy on Monday," he added.

"We were given repeated assurances that the embassy officials would come and visit the stranded passenger but there was no visit even after requests from the airport police," the airline officials said. The airline even tried in vain to contact the stranded passenger's sponsor.

He said that since Muscat Airport does not have a hotel in the transit area, Qatar Airways provided food, drinks, a blanket and all the necessary help to make Beebi comfortable.

Yesterday, the stranded passenger allegedly began to get delusional. "We first took her to the airport clinic but her condition seemed to be getting worse," he revealed.

The airline then decided to take her to the Bin Sina Psychiatric Hospital. "As she was being taken to hospital, she died in the ambulance," he added.

Mental trauma

A senior doctor with the government hospital said that it is possible that the severe mental trauma caused a cardiac arrest.

Meanwhile, Indian ambassador Anil Wadhwa told Gulf News that it was sad that Lumada lost her life before an exit pass could be issued for her departure. "It is sad that procedural delay delayed help for the stranded passenger," he said.

He added that the mission had asked immigration authorities to send a lost passport report as there was no access for embassy staff to the stranded passenger at the airport.

"We were even told that she would be brought to the embassy for a signature to formalise her exit pass," he said, adding that weekend delayed that visit further.

"We are now in touch with her kin in India and we will ensure that her body is sent back respectfully," he added.

He revealed that Lumada, who joined her sponsor in last August, suffered from seizures and hysteria.

"That was the reason her sponsor sent her back within two months," he said.

The sponsor was not answering the calls made to him on the number in the immigration system.

Circus update

2010-10-07T18:12:00.004+04:00

Just a quick one regarding the circus in Qurm Park. A group of us tried to go last week and were told the shows will only be during the weekends. Would have been nice to share that little bit of info with us on the poster!

To everyone going to the 80's party tonight - enjoy yourself and get Pat Sharp to play the Funhouse theme for me! To the non-brits who don't know what that is, it's a kids TV show from the early 90's. Check out that sexy 90's mullet of his, above!

Have a nice weekend :)

Circus in Oman

2010-09-29T09:08:00.001+04:00

How exciting! Admittedly I am a big kid at heart, but I am looking forward to a little trip to the circus. I remember seeing the Moscow State Circus as a kid and how fun the whole thing was, so if this event is only half as fab it should still be good.

It is taking place in Qurum Park, Marah Land from September 30 to October 30. The English Sabla has the time listed as 7pm to 9pm, while tickets are priced from RO2 to RO5 for VIP tickets – not sure what that gets you though.

I won’t be going until next week, but if anyone else goes along before then, let me know how it is.

Have a nice weekend

Stationary Post

2010-09-16T13:26:00.005+04:00

Anyone who knows me in “the real world” knows how much I love stationary; it is a very geeky addiction of mine that used to cost me a fortune in the UK. Luckily nice stationary isn’t so easy to come across here in Muscat – feel free to let me know if there are any nice places I have missed – and you get fed up of buying everything in Paperchase after a while.

I have been on the look out for something nice I can use to finally organise all those little scribbles and recipes that I have collected over the years. A friend suggested a cookbook from Paperchase but they were all a bit boring. But during a bored flick through Etsy, I found this by Cutthecakedesigns. I remember my grandma used to have one with her recipes in, so I thought why not bring the idea a bit more up to date.

It costs around RO25 including delivery, depends on the currency rate when you order but I think it is worth it. The file is supposed to be a funky alternative to a wedding guest book, but is perfect to be used as a recipe file. Come pay day at the end of the month, this will be one of the first things I order.
After the Eid holiday, I have also decided to get more organised and had a clear out of my diary. Got me thinking about next year and being old school will be ordering a paper diary, this one by sarahpinto is looking the likely candidate at the moment but this one and always the hopeful one this lucky diary is a possibility. It is around RO12 including delivery.

I stumbled across this shop a while ago and keep meaning to order something from it. Seen as the lovely owner (and blogger Tea For Joy) is having a competition at the moment to win £100 worth of stationary from Papermash, I thought I would share it with you ☺ go and have a peek.

Anyway, that is my frivolous “I want to spend money” post for today.

OB

Eid mubarak

2010-09-12T16:08:00.003+04:00

Eid mubarak to everyone!

Ramadan went without too much fuss and I managed to fast without complaining too much. Had some lovely Iftar suppers both at my place and at friends houses plus got to try some crazy dishes! Got my eid henna done with one of my closest Omani friends and her mum who were the sweetest and even baked me little treats throughout eid. Things are very busy and I have another meal to prepare but will post something longer next week. How are you all spending eid?

Until then I hope you all enjoy this holiday and let the rumours on how long next eid will last begin. I think 2 weeks, but I am always hopeful ;)

Ob

Ramadan Kareem

2010-08-16T20:24:00.006+04:00

Ramadan Kareem to all my Muslim followers. While this isn't my first Ramadan in the sultanate, I feel like I am taking it much seriously this year - all the way down to fasting and trying to cook dishes for B that are way out of my comfort zone. I have developed a real love for Asabea Zainab (Zainab's fingers) - these deliciously sticky sweets that I buy so much the guy in Carrefour now knows my name, B's name and that if he sees us he should automatically start shovelling them into a container for us :)

The hardest part of fasting so far has been the lack of water, working in front of a computer screen all day with not a sip in sight has been headache inducing to the max. I have also had trouble understanding some of my fellow expats at work and outside who have been spotted walking around in practically nothing - hotpants and crop tops ahoy, plus who sit in an office full of Muslims drinking and eating smelly foods despite polite requests to go and eat in the break room. What to do.

While on my quest to learn some new Arabic sweet and dishes, I came across this FAB site Arabic Bites. It looks like the owners haven't been updating it for a while, but there are some great recipes for those who fancy giving Arabic food a twirl. What will be the first recipe I try... well Asabea' Zainab of course!

In blogging news, the fabulous OtherOman has left for pastures new - a sad day in Oman's blogsphere as I think it is fair to say she was the reason a lot of us got into blogging during our time in Oman and she provided us all with one heck of a laugh along the way. Hopefully *nudge nudge* she will keep blogging when she gets settled. Best of luck Suburban x

Cultural Differences

2010-08-08T10:30:00.000+04:00

I saw this post a few days ago by Sultanate Social, a new-ish blogger in Muscat and was in total agreement with her about Cultural Convictions. I understand there will be cultural differences wherever we go, but when you hear people just slating anothers upbringing and home country it is damn right rude.

I get sick of my Indian colleagues telling me how corrupt my home country is, how loose all the women are, how we don't care about our kids because we allow them an element of freedom instead of forcing them into education 16 hours a day and how we have no real food culture! ARGH! Every little bit of me is biting itself as I struggle to not scream at them.

Often I explain how mad their arguments are and how they are based on no knowledge of the countries they speak of what so ever. At least 90% of them have never even been to the UK yet are so willing to pass judgement.

I hate hearing how some of my colleagues send their kids to school, bring them homethen make them do tuition all afternoon and evening. When I asked when their kids have time to actually be children, you know, go outside and PLAY with other kids - develop social skills, learn to play interact with people outside their family... I got looked at like I had just asked why they didn't sacrifice their children on an alter of candy! Their reply - "well you brits just don't get it, WE actually care about our education. Anyway we can't let or kids play outside there's loads of peadophiles you know." Ah yes, silly me. I forgot I didn't care about my education when I paid thousands to study at university and everytime I ventured out my front door as a child I was going to be lured away by the piper and his rats!

Goodness me. It just seems like utter madness to me. I respect their culture, I find it interesting. I love hearing about the different festivals and such, plus it never fails to amaze me how different two groups of people can be when they live so close to each other. All I'm saying is it would be nice for that to flow back a little the other way. Anyway, that is enough ranting for today!

OB

Pretty fly, for a white girl

2010-08-07T14:32:00.004+04:00

Bad blogger, Bad OB… Sorry I have been MIA since reporting that I was back. While I write the holiday posts up, here is something a little topical.

Here we go again folks. The great man-made wonders of the world start appearing in supermarkets across the sultanate, with each competing against the other in both height and width. Whether you shop at LuLu, Carrefour, Sultan Centre or Al Fair you will have spotted the Giza pyramids biggest rival – The great pyramid of Vimto, the leaning tower of Pisa’s baby cousin – the leaning tower of Crème Caramel and of course the Great Wall of Dates.

Ah yes, Ramadan is on the way again and in the same way I’d tuck into a foul brussels sprout at Christmas (Despite being grown up, my brother and I still make ourselves eat at least one each time they are offered to us – a tradition I intend to force on my kids one day!), we find ourselves sitting down to bowls of Crème Caramel – something most of us wouldn’t look twice at if on offer a month earlier.
I am not Muslim, but will be observing (unfortunately no food and all – not just watching it!) this year just like I did the previous year. B has said he is worried how grumpy I will get as normally if I am not fed every few hours I take on the characteristics of a bear with a sore head. I will be having some friends over for Iftar throughout the month and already sorting out some meal plans that include very berry cheesecake (no Bailey’s cheesecake for now – boo), lamb chops with garlicky mash and veg plus old favourite of everyone who comes to eat at mine… lasagne – from scratch of course!

A lot of friends have invited me over to theirs and I will be tucking into dishes from Lebanon, Oman, Egypt, Sudan, Morocco and South Africa to name just a few so figured I would go a bit western with my dinners. Have you ever known the fear of offering homemade shish tawok or hummus to an Arab… just remembering it fills me with fear. To this day I don’t know if they were just being polite or it actually was pretty good… “for a white girl….”

What are your plans for Ramadan? Or are you all abandoning ship so to speak? Don’t forget the whole point behind Ramadan though & should you wish to donate the Donations Portal for Charitable Organisations is available.

OB

Back to normal

2010-07-08T21:59:00.004+04:00

I am alive! Sorry about the massive gap between posts, it would appear the bug hit most of the bloggers in Muscat as we all ran off on holiday or just ran out of things to talk about. Visiting B's home country was quite an experience and I will have to do a separate post on the things I have now learnt about weddings…. Picture this: Me in a blinged up abaya (made especially for the occasion – thanks for the tips by the way girls!) and a woman in a diamond-encrusted hijab dancing away together. Oh and I am not a big fan of the animal sacrifices… but like I said, story for another day!

In local news, the fabulous Angry in Oman is back – sort of. She is guest blogging on Muscat Mutterings and her first post made me spit out my tea in hysterics, oh the shame!!
Other Oman seems to be my kind of woman as well with one of her latest post on where to shop for funky and individual furnishings for your home. I am also a big fan of Al Madina Art Gallery having bought some photos from them a few months back, I keep meaning to get them framed so shall get my ass down there soon. Those neon lights are FABULOUS, are they from your house Other Oman? Jealous much :( consider that booty surrendered!

Ah and there seems to be a few new bloggers in Oman. I have been checking out Sultanate Social since I got back so hope she carries on writing. Who are your fave bloggers here? There are a few I read pretty religiously (Muscat Confidential, of course + a few others) and some that I dip in and out of.

Until next time...

OB

Tik Tok

2010-05-21T23:13:00.005+04:00

No this post isn't about that irritating woman Ke$ha!

Why is it that as children we crave adulthood and as adults, once we have done all the big firsts – paid our first bill, made our first vote in a general election and avoided one of those charity collection people in the high street – we wish we could go back to being carefree kids? The grass is always greener on the other side and all that. I was talking to a friend over the weekend about the things from our childhood that we hope our children will also enjoy.

I grew up in a pretty city in England that come the summer would be swarmed with tourists and in the winter, coaches of bored and disappointed French school kids would be shipped over to wander round the cathedral and get overly excited at the sight of a McDonalds or Starbucks in the distance. I love my home town, but it got too small and restrictive for me. It is one of those places estate agents calls “perfect for raising a family” and a film crew turns up to every few months to film for the latest period drama.

We had a great old library with this huge clock above the door that my mum used to take me to on Saturday mornings. While she studied for her next exam, I used to run wild among the dusty, smelly books and hide in the corner of the room pretending to read the biggest book I could find. One day, I decided to wander off and was spotted with my cute little Minnie Mouse bow in my hair just staring at this clock. I remember having a real thing about watching time go by.

I was, rather geekily, fascinated with clocks and time and clock mechanisms. When my mum’s mum died, I was old enough to remember how sad it made everyone and that the nice nanny who would, on visits to our house, have a sneaky fag in my bedroom hanging out the window and give me 10p for sweets if I didn’t tell my mum (smoking was, and still is, strictly forbidden in my house – the same grandma died of lung cancer) and winking at me as she poured a little whisky into her glass before my mother saw.

I remember her or my grandad gave my mum this really smart watch. This watch was a real family antique and most importantly it didn’t work. There was this shop round the corner from my house that specialised in antique clocks. I remember going there with my mum, we rang the doorbell to be let in and it was like heaven. Clock mechanisms, big old grandfather clocks, annoying cuckoo clocks and other little gems were strewn everywhere.

Strangely I have never been back to that shop. Whenever I go back home to see family, I walk past it and smile but a bit of me wonders if it wouldn’t be as amazing as it was for this little kid many years ago. Bizarrely enough I don’t actually wear a watch, I am still fascinated by them though but not in an Antiques Roadshow way… more the way it takes me back to being a kid and how by changing the time with the dial as a child, I thought I was actually moving time backwards and forwards. What memories do you have of childhood that you would like to pass onto your kids? Any geeky secrets like mine? For now, until that day I can bring myself to go into that shop I will just control myself with clock inspired jewellery.

(Jewellery images from JewelsByNature on Etsy)

Tarts, visas, burgers and stropping

2010-05-13T16:49:00.003+04:00

Well what a couple of weeks it has been. Burger King opened in Qurum and everyone went a little crazy queuing up in their cars, blocking up the petrol station for those actually wanting to get petrol and more surprising (for me at least) waiting so long you would think the food was free. It wasn’t was it? Does anyone know why they chose to have it in the location they did? It seems a bit strange just perched next to the petrol station and with not much foot traffic I would imagine, just the cars driving between Ruwi/Muttrah and Qurum.

Both B and I have been having real nightmares involving work and both of us are having trouble finding sympathy for the other when we are both equally miffed off. The stress lead to our first big proper row (such a proud moment ha!) when I had spent all day at work then went to go to the cinema with him to see a film I didn’t want to see, on his day off. He had woke up at 3pm and complained he was tired. Oops. Big mistake there B. I flew off the handle (much to amusement of the Omani couple sat meters from us) telling him he had no idea what being tired meant etc…all utter nonsense you understand, I do realise he does work hard, but he needs to be a little more aware of his audience lol.

Visas for our big holiday are still with the relevant embassies and I am getting more and more nervous they will say no. The flights are booked, we are both broke until payday and the families are expecting us. I have picked an abaya now so thanks to everyone for the tips and where to go. I ended up buying a plain one for RO30, really nice quality and perfect fit (damn those shoulders of mine) so have got some nice chap in Al Khuwair to stitch on a nice simple design on the cuffs and hem.
As mentioned above we are now broke but B has a seriously sweet-tooth. I decided to knock up some jam tarts (partly as a sorry for being such a grumpy cow lately and partly cus I just love them!) Normally I make the pastry and use different jams and the occasional fruit compote to go inside, but I am feeling lazy! A quick trip to Al Fair and a few rials later I had ready rolled short crust pastry and some decent jam. An hour later and I had 20 cute little jam tarts for when he came round after work and my domestic goddess status was still in tact.
Cheat: 1 vs DIY: 0

What cheats tips do you have?

Oh and what has happened to all the bloggers? Everyone seems to have gone MIA! Please come back :)

OB x

Where to visit?

2010-04-28T21:55:00.005+04:00

After the lovely response on my last post about buying an abaya, I thought I would put something else out there and seek more advice.

B has never been to England before and is SOOO excited that even I have began to get excited. I was talking to him yesterday about any specific places that he wants to visit and Buckingham Palace, going on a train (and the underground), Big Ben and "somewhere by the sea" were top of his list. He also wants to go to a certain high-end store because it is ran by "a man in my country who did good" can you guess where ;)

Apart from those things, he doesn't really know and I am a rubbish tour guide (just ask my family about the Muscat Tour 2009) so if you were going to the UK for the first time or could do anything... what would you like to do? I am thinking of taking him to the Natural History Museum and the V&A so I can claim to have done the whole culture thing, but anything outside of London? Am even considering booking a afternoon tea somewhere, but will probably do that in my home town.

Tips please :) in return you shall all get virtual red double decker bus keyrings.

OB xx

Abaya help

2010-04-26T21:48:00.006+04:00

Oh god. I need to buy an abaya for an Omani friend's wedding next month (really looking forward to this & what a post it should make) and *breaking news* I am going to meet B's parents. We have decided to go back to his home country for this and well it gives me the excuse I have been dying for to go on holiday. B has never cared that I don't wear an abaya, but for the sake of avoiding problems for this first visit, I have agreed to. I only have to wear it when I go out with his mother/sisters or if we are going somewhere like the market... so no problem from my end.

However.... I don't suit an abaya. Or at least the one I used to wear when I was with A and went to his village (in Oman) to see his VERY traditional family. No offence is meant by this, but I looked like a witch! I looked like some mad white woman who needed to be told it wasn't halloween anymore. On the other hand, I went with some friends to Muttrah a while back when they were abaya shopping and tried on a type of epileptic fit inducing shiny, flashy abaya that would have not looked out of place on Elvis. (But as the photo above shows, I am partial to the odd tassle!!)

What do I do? What is fashionable in abayas? My friends are useless because they hate wearing them and end up wearing just totally plain black ones (which make me look like a witch/nun on the loose) so help me ladies. I know from the emails and bits I have got from people that there are a few Omani women who read this, so help me please! Where do I go? Where are the best shops? Am hitting the shops tomorrow with B to see if he can help, but knowing how hideous he is with shopping I know it won't be much use. I want something with a bit of colour, but not TOO flashy... for example, I don't like "diamonds" Oh and shiny material is a BIG no no... am a curvy lass and that just ain't a good look.

Is is ok to wear the same abaya everyday/every other day for two weeks? Do I need to buy a few? I won't be wearing the headscarf, even though that does actually suit me, but do abayas come with a headscarf I can throw round my shoulders? To Omani girls or girls who wear the abaya these are probably really stupid questions.... but I want to be sure! Oh and how much will I be looking at for something nice? I have heard everything from RO20 to "uuum Bank Muscat, can I have an overdraft facility please?"

Any help would be really appreciated :) thanks in advance.

I have gas...

2010-04-13T16:31:00.003+04:00

It was great to hear everyone’s dinner party related horror stories and for the first time in my life, I am pleased to announce that… I have gas! The nice man turned up with a big shiny canister and after much huffing and puffing – he was not impressed I lived on the second floor and there was no lift – I can cook again. So how did I celebrate this amazing feat, well I ordered from the Noodle House after realising I had no food to cook anyway!

I was thinking the other day about what point behind my blog was and came to conclusion that there wasn’t much of one. I like writing, I like embarrassing myself in public (after years of fighting it) I like pretty things and well, I think my life is pretty humorous as not a day goes by without something going wrong! Nothing makes others feel better about stuff going wrong in their lives than knowing it happens to every bugger else as well.

I ventured out to Essence Spa at the weekend and it was FABULOUS. Back in the UK, I was never much of a spa princess but as soon as I moved here I began to crave pedicures (mostly because of the embarrassment of realising half the blokes stared at my ankles/feet even when I wore leggings under skirts – so it would be unfair to not give them something pretty to look at!) The trip was a much needed stress reliever and I can seriously recommend visiting them – unfortunately they don’t pay me in massages for every time I mention them, but just in case such a scheme should arise…. ESSENCE SPA, ESSENCE SPA, ESSENCE SPA. :)

I was going to go to the Tom Jones concert tomorrow at the Intercontinental, but so far haven’t bought tickets so maybe I will see you there! Depends if I can muster up the energy to stumble down to the box office. Who is going? Muscat Mutterings has lots to look forward to after winning two tickets in a Muscat Confidential competition for the gig, but being the nice chap he is, he had already purchased some for himself, he gave them to fellow blogger Delirious in the Desert.

I would love for a band like Muse or heck, even a slightly lame Snow Patrol to come to Muscat just for a bit of variety. Have always wondered what the chances of someone getting a big BIG popular band over here and putting on a gig at the SQ Stadium in Bausher… would people go for that or are people just not as interested in music here?

If you are after escaping the heat – doesn’t it seem hotter than last year at around this time – Suburban has written a post on her secret shopping hangouts so well worth a look. I do wish she would write a book or something on her interactions with the security guards at her place who seem to be a little more gangster than Muscat is perhaps ready for ;)

While on a slightly more sombre note, Rania on Sleepless in Salalah has wrote about the horrid incident that took place in Yemen where a thirteen year old girl died after being brutally raped by her husband. Her brother in return for one of his sisters traded the girl to the man. When the hell is someone going to step in and do something about child brides? These poor girls can’t speak for themselves, so it is about time someone gave them a voice. Personally I think these men are nothing better than paedophiles and should be locked up, to do this to anyone is horrific but to do it to a child is in my opinion unforgivable.

Anyway, quite a long post today.

Weekend soon, chin up!

OB

Opps-a-daisy

2010-04-09T01:45:00.002+04:00

Oops! Well I had every intention of writing a blog post last week but work reached fever pitch and when I got home each night I was just crashing out. Pizza Express and Silk Route certainly had their income boosted by me this month, thank god for deliveries.

I had a really fab blog idea that came to me in the middle of the night but instead of writing it down I just rolled over, went back to bed and forgot. So instead you are going to get a post about my failings as a domestic goddess!

I always wanted to be one of those women that you hear about who can do a full day at work, do all the day’s chores, spend “quality time” with the 2.5 kids and the dog then hold a dinner party that everyone fights for an invite to. Well I think it is fair to say I have become known for my dinner party (yes, just the one…) but not for the best reasons. My friends will not let it go now and while they have asked to come back, I think it is out of pity more than anything. The food was great, the candles were lovely and the service was spot on. Or at least that is what they said about the dinner they ate that night following last minute reservations at The Restaurant in The Chedi!

No, I’m not that rich that when I hold a dinner party I hire out The Chedi and take over the kitchens for one night – although, following a lottery win that could be quite a cool idea – No, instead of holding the spectacular dinner party that I had planned, we ended up making dinner reservations when after THREE (insert expletive here) hours prep work I realised the gas had ran out.

B’s suggestion of “can’t you stick it in the microwave?” was met with nothing but horror and my guests response of near of hysteria didn’t help much either. I had chopped, marinated, sliced, grated and peeled enough food to feed all the guys sitting down Lovers’ Lane (post coming on them soon) on a Thursday night, but I had no gas to cook it on. I lost the number for the gas man when my phone crashed a few months back, it was 7pm at night and after B caught me crying on the road outside our street sobbing “I just want someone with gas to drive past” (now who hasn't said that at one point or another!) he decided to make reservations.

Anyway, the reason I am telling you this as this happened almost a week ago now and I still haven’t got a canister. So I am using work as an excuse for the fact that I am sat in bed, waiting for B to bring me some shish tawok from the place round the corner.

Inspired by the witty (and bloody hilarious!) blogger OtherOman, I am going to start doing meal plans (obviously once the gas gets sorted!) as I realised I have been spending a fortune on food shopping lately.

How much do you all think you spend a week on shopping? Where do you shop? Any embarrassing stories about dinner parties that will make me feel better or does anyone want to come to the next one and witness the calamity as it unfolds?

Coming soon...

2010-04-07T19:46:00.001+04:00

Wow, I cannot believe this blog is getting so many hits. Thanks to everyone for your kind comments and such. Started writing a blog post but am dashing out the door to see a friend so will finish it tomorrow. Hope it is worth the wait.

OB

The Expat life

2010-03-29T20:28:00.007+04:00

Some think all expat women live this coffee morning, cocktails at sunset style existence when they move here. When it comes to organising their days it comes down to the difficult decision of doing their hair or their nails… a very good question, but not one people like myself get the chance to ask except on our treasured weekends. This of course comes only after we have paid the bills, done the food shopping (crap – I knew there was something I forgot to do this week!) and explained to 101 friends who don’t work, why getting up to meet them for coffee at 9am on my day off is a pain because I want a lie in.

Now don’t get me wrong, I enjoy working. It would drive me mad waking up every morning and hitting repeat from the previous day’s events. But the recent goodbye from a friend of mine here in Oman has made me realise how lonely the life of an expat can be. We all come and go so quickly that we are calling people friends and having these intense friendships with them after knowing them for such a short amount of time.

We move here and try to make friends with everyone who seems normal-ish and face the consequences later when you are turning down the forth dinner invitation from the mad couple who insisted everyone should wear plastic gloves at their last party because “we are worried little Timmy will catch H1N1” uh… seriously?! Before right on queue, “excuse me, I think I left the oven on.”

That situation, while amusing is just the dried fruit in the fruitcake that is expat life, I haven’t even got to the icing. Try having your partner invited to a party with people you have known for a few months and hearing the only reason he was invited is to “bump up the local percentage” Yes he is Arab, but he isn’t Omani… so isn’t really THAT local is he and I must of missed the story in the paper about parties having Omanisation quotas now.

Oh and I am still scarred after my first venture into an Omani colleagues house and they offered me Kahwa. I now love the stuff, but after going “please, no more coffee I’m fine thanks” and being poured another cup… it was my forth cup before some kind soul took pity and told me “to make them stop, shake your cup” My fault entirely but I wish someone had told me sooner.

On a slightly girlier note - if you are moving house and fancy a cute (non-email!) way of letting people know your new PO Box, you could do worse than these cards on Folsky. They are £25 and from Dig The Earth. Oh and should deliver to Oman :)

I know some of this is going to sound like a giant whinge, but I am interested in hearing your expat stories. How do you meet people when you move here? How easy do you find making new friends? Any amusing stories about friendships gone wrong ;) Thought it could be of interest to anyone moving here.

Am I a Mad Hatter?

2010-03-12T22:40:00.005+04:00

Sorry for taking so long to do a follow-up post, everything seemed to happen at once.
Anyway, I have been going Alice in Wonderland mad since the release of the remake and when one of my favourite sites Domestic Sluttery posted about the Disney Couture range, I knew I had to whip the credit card out and start spending.

I remember reading Alice in Wonderland as a child and even went as far as to tip the sand out the little glass bottle I had made at Bournemouth beach a few months earlier and wrote “Drink Me” on it. I loved the fantastically mad world Alice went to and always secretly hoped to be sucked down a rabbit hole, ending up at the Mad Hatter’s tea party.

I have a feeling this jewellery is as close as I will get to being in Alice’s world but it is a start. The range is made up of cheaper Disney Couture pieces (which incidentally are my favourites) and the more expensive range by Tom Binns for Disney Couture which is a bit edgier – if Alice in Wonderland can be such a thing.

My favourite piece is this silver plated “Drink Me” glass vial necklace on a fine chain. It costs £30 and when payday comes round I will find out how much the delivery is from shopping classic ASOS. Went to see the movie last night and loved it once it really got going.

What books from your childhood do you still love? I am still looking for a copy of Enid Blyton’s The Magic Faraway Tree to appear in Borders – all time favourite!

Sushi in Muscat

2010-01-28T18:21:00.003+04:00

For any fans of the fishy treat, the Hyatt has introduced a new sushi menu. Not sure if it is any good, if you get down there before I do please let me know! May not need to visit Japengos all the time for my sushi fix.

All things "L"

2010-01-27T22:23:00.004+04:00

Sometimes I feel like I am at home and other times I fear I will never understand this country, today, unfortunately for my mood and this blog post, it was the latter. After spending a few below freezing days back in my home country where the weather seemed thoroughly against me and not even the wellies that had previously served me so well as I traipsed across flooded fields with my dog could stand up against the snowy slush that covered them. I decided that maybe I was supposed to be in Muscat; after all where I am from doesn’t really give off much inspiration are rarely goes above 30c.

I moved to Muscat on a whim really, I got offered an ok sounding job and figured “give it a year or so then go back to Blighty.” I did what all sensible people did and read up on Oman, what to look out for, how to stay safe and most importantly – The Dummies Guide to Bargaining – essential for those Muttrah Souq visits! However I forgot to tell myself not to fall in love and I did. Hard.

I fell in love with the man that I thought I would spend the rest of my life with, I thought A was different from all the rest and that he was “the one” that every single love song sings about. Oops. Three months after getting engaged to A, he left me. However after A, comes B and that is whom I am with now, but B doesn’t like blogs so this will have to remain our little secret for now.

I work in the private sector and have been here for almost two years and never realised how British I was until I moved here. I miss scones and clotted cream, pots of tea and cucumber sandwiches. I miss strolls to the local deli, trips to the farmers market. I miss leather bound books, slippers, cosy blankets to snuggle up in while it pours outside and most of all I miss my pretty kitchen from back home.

Yes I realise how sad this makes me sound. My kitchen here in Muscat is about the size of a postage stamp. I couldn’t swing a mouse, let alone a cat in this thing and I certainly won’t be whipping up any culinary delights because I am scared senseless of my cooker. The thing demands I switch the gas on from a bottle 3 meters away from it before throwing matches at the hob before it explodes, almost removing my eyebrows.

My resolution for 2010 was to try and put myself first a bit more. I have decided that if I want cake, I will eat cake. If I want salad – and let’s face it how likely is this to happen – I will eat salad. But most of all I will aim to write at least one posting a week on this site and hopefully pull a few (like myself!) wannabe domestic goddesses out the vintage closet we hide in. I hope you enjoy this and bare with me while I iron out a few teething problems.

About Me

2009-07-11T22:49:00.007+04:00

Well, what can I say? My eyes are too small, my backside is too big and I am about an inch too short. I moved to Oman just under a year ago because I had spent my life worrying so much about my family, friends and future that I was driving myself mad (not to mention all of those who knew me) I needed the adventure and I needed to escape. When I first got here, I thought I would get by but I never thought I would fall in love with Muscat. Everyone told me that my feministic views would not be welcome, that I would spend my time walking 5 steps behind men and that my wackiness would earn me a one way ticket back to the UK with embassy escort. I had a view of the Middle East which I think a lot of Westerners are guilty of; we have all watched BBC News and seen “Crisis in the Middle East” plastered across our screens week on week and assume a lot. We were told in school and by the media that all women are oppressed and that it is a dangerous place to live (clearly those people have never lived in Nottingham) How wrong I was.

I think the cultural differences can be a real shock for those who come here with a closed mind and if you want to be offended by the stares (and believe me, there are a lot) which are generally just curiosity, then you will be. I always feel sorry for the few expats I know who have moved here expecting some bustling metropolis and instead got a rather chilled out slow paced city. Their experience of Omani life consists of sitting a few seats away from some bloke in a dishdasha in Left Bank, smoking the occasional shisha and eating chicken shawarma. They never get the chance to experience the “real Oman” because they choose not to, the opportunities are there but they ignore them.

I have been very lucky and made some brilliant Omani friends. Some of them already feel like family and have really embraced me. It has been a real eye-opener for a Christian born Brit girl to have hands on experience with the Arabic people, their views on life and Islam. One of my secret (well not anymore!) reasons for being here is to learn Arabic, Arabic cuisine and become the sort of domestic goddess that would make Nigella Lawson green with envy so I will let you know how I get on with that.

I hope you find this interesting and feel free to comment or drop me an email.

The Omani Brit